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My 33 year old son. Had to make homeless
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<blockquote data-quote="Triedntrue" data-source="post: 730429" data-attributes="member: 21499"><p>I agree with those before me. Your son needs to be responsible for himself. My son is also 36 he can not live here. I don't know about your financial circumstances but our older children can drain them quickly with no remorse. I love my son but i have come to the realization that i am not helping him because he has become dependent. I believed that I was helping him but when i was paying his bills he was using that money for drugs. I am not wealthy and he has put me in a financial position where i can't enjoy my retirement. I am going to work on changing that which will make him work on changing his behavior. Am I worried about what could happen? Yes but if i don't make him do it now what will happen when i am gone. Each of us reach this point in our own time and our own level of what is appropriate help. I hope you can find what works for you and your son. My son is dual diagnosis bipolar and addiction.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Triedntrue, post: 730429, member: 21499"] I agree with those before me. Your son needs to be responsible for himself. My son is also 36 he can not live here. I don't know about your financial circumstances but our older children can drain them quickly with no remorse. I love my son but i have come to the realization that i am not helping him because he has become dependent. I believed that I was helping him but when i was paying his bills he was using that money for drugs. I am not wealthy and he has put me in a financial position where i can't enjoy my retirement. I am going to work on changing that which will make him work on changing his behavior. Am I worried about what could happen? Yes but if i don't make him do it now what will happen when i am gone. Each of us reach this point in our own time and our own level of what is appropriate help. I hope you can find what works for you and your son. My son is dual diagnosis bipolar and addiction. [/QUOTE]
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