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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 735711" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I forgot your story so I read it to refresh my memory and now I will state my .02 opinion because it's just a guess.</p><p></p><p>When they are 20 and maybe even.up to 30 for some adult kids, I think they can sincerely have an awakening. But as they age, the past is very much a predictor of the future.</p><p></p><p>Frankly to me your daughter sounds plain awful, even dangerous. I don't think she is suddenly sunshine and roses.</p><p></p><p>At least at McDonalds, I bought my first senior coffee at 55. The 50s do not normally spawn sudden personality changes unless one is in very serious therapy and eager to learn because there is no age you stop learning. But it is far harder to change on your own without guidance, as you age.</p><p></p><p>If you open up to her please do it with no expectations. Dont let your guard down. Ever. She is who she is. It may well be that she wants something. Is she concerned about being in your will or being your guardian if you get sick to take control of your money? Be careful. Sometimes lost loved ones suddenly come back all smiles as we age, and it isn't about us.</p><p></p><p>In the meantime work hard on being nice to YOU for the rest of your life. That is my .02</p><p></p><p>Love and.light.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 735711, member: 1550"] I forgot your story so I read it to refresh my memory and now I will state my .02 opinion because it's just a guess. When they are 20 and maybe even.up to 30 for some adult kids, I think they can sincerely have an awakening. But as they age, the past is very much a predictor of the future. Frankly to me your daughter sounds plain awful, even dangerous. I don't think she is suddenly sunshine and roses. At least at McDonalds, I bought my first senior coffee at 55. The 50s do not normally spawn sudden personality changes unless one is in very serious therapy and eager to learn because there is no age you stop learning. But it is far harder to change on your own without guidance, as you age. If you open up to her please do it with no expectations. Dont let your guard down. Ever. She is who she is. It may well be that she wants something. Is she concerned about being in your will or being your guardian if you get sick to take control of your money? Be careful. Sometimes lost loved ones suddenly come back all smiles as we age, and it isn't about us. In the meantime work hard on being nice to YOU for the rest of your life. That is my .02 Love and.light. [/QUOTE]
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