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<blockquote data-quote="Slimothy" data-source="post: 687955" data-attributes="member: 20314"><p>Cedar, You have stuck with me for days and this morning I teared up at your kindness and wisdom.</p><p>I had a lightbulb moment when i read your comments today , triggered by something you shared-</p><p></p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/youreright.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":youreright:" title="youreright :youreright:" data-shortname=":youreright:" /></p><p>When my mother ran her brothel, at NO POINT did I ever attribute anything to do with her decision, to the way her parents raised her. Her mother was my mothers main carer and she taught sewing and cooking at a girls high school for 40 years. My mothers father worked on the railways. Nothing my grandparents did equated to raising a daughter who not only ran a brothel, but made it a family business which involved three of her adult children and (I lose count of how many) grandchildren.</p><p></p><p>My daughter was raised in difficult circumstances, although despite that as a young adult she wanted the highest education she could get to reach her potential. Hence nine years after finishing school she had two University degress and spoke two languages...she had lived in Japan for two years. This period of time was where my role in equipping her as an independant adult changed...dropped off. We became more like friends.</p><p></p><p>She knew that i know the sex industry inside out, and before she worked as a prostitute, she did a bit of research of her own. I asked her a few times WHY did she visit the 'Prostitutes Collective' and WHY did she want to know how Mum ran her brothel in detail, and my daughter told me she was doing research for an art project.</p><p></p><p>Humph...she was telling me half a story, and I got the picture!<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite9" alt=":eek:" title="Eek! :eek:" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":eek:" /></p><p></p><p>Anyway, I figured if my grandmother had nothing to do with her daughter running brothels, nor have I had anything to do with my daughter being a prostitute.</p><p></p><p>This is so.</p><p>This is the truth.</p><p>I need to stop bashing my self up.</p><p>Perhaps i could even reward myself, knowng that I supported her to have OPTIONS, should she ever want to seek mainstream employment in the future!!</p><p></p><p>Also, my mother could be rather cutting and rude. I never thought that this was my grandmothers fault, weakness, poor parenting, lack of discipline either. This was simply my mother being rude.</p><p></p><p>My daughter has been rude. She has been disrespectful to her loved ones.</p><p></p><p>This is simply my daughter being rude and disrespectful <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/alien.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":alien:" title="alien :alien:" data-shortname=":alien:" /></p><p></p><p>I am going to think this over for a few more days, and I am going to listen to the Ted talks and other things you have mentioned here.</p><p>I will let you know how i am doing in a few days time.</p><p></p><p>By the way, I so understand about heels. I want some kick butt shoes. I have seen some very nice fabric that would make a lovely dress...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Slimothy, post: 687955, member: 20314"] Cedar, You have stuck with me for days and this morning I teared up at your kindness and wisdom. I had a lightbulb moment when i read your comments today , triggered by something you shared- :youreright: When my mother ran her brothel, at NO POINT did I ever attribute anything to do with her decision, to the way her parents raised her. Her mother was my mothers main carer and she taught sewing and cooking at a girls high school for 40 years. My mothers father worked on the railways. Nothing my grandparents did equated to raising a daughter who not only ran a brothel, but made it a family business which involved three of her adult children and (I lose count of how many) grandchildren. My daughter was raised in difficult circumstances, although despite that as a young adult she wanted the highest education she could get to reach her potential. Hence nine years after finishing school she had two University degress and spoke two languages...she had lived in Japan for two years. This period of time was where my role in equipping her as an independant adult changed...dropped off. We became more like friends. She knew that i know the sex industry inside out, and before she worked as a prostitute, she did a bit of research of her own. I asked her a few times WHY did she visit the 'Prostitutes Collective' and WHY did she want to know how Mum ran her brothel in detail, and my daughter told me she was doing research for an art project. Humph...she was telling me half a story, and I got the picture!:eek: Anyway, I figured if my grandmother had nothing to do with her daughter running brothels, nor have I had anything to do with my daughter being a prostitute. This is so. This is the truth. I need to stop bashing my self up. Perhaps i could even reward myself, knowng that I supported her to have OPTIONS, should she ever want to seek mainstream employment in the future!! Also, my mother could be rather cutting and rude. I never thought that this was my grandmothers fault, weakness, poor parenting, lack of discipline either. This was simply my mother being rude. My daughter has been rude. She has been disrespectful to her loved ones. This is simply my daughter being rude and disrespectful :alien: I am going to think this over for a few more days, and I am going to listen to the Ted talks and other things you have mentioned here. I will let you know how i am doing in a few days time. By the way, I so understand about heels. I want some kick butt shoes. I have seen some very nice fabric that would make a lovely dress... [/QUOTE]
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