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<blockquote data-quote="Slimothy" data-source="post: 687962" data-attributes="member: 20314"><p>Hi Copa,</p><p>I think whats happened is that I have kicked off some shame and self blame.</p><p>I still hurt like heck...I just love her so much and want to wrap her in my arms and make everything go away. But the child is gone, and the adult I knew as my daughter is gone too. And she's too old to be wrapped up! </p><p></p><p>...its not me holding her anymore. Anyway, thats just the sort of horrible imagery inspiring yucky thinking I am going to work letting go of. It just takes me to places that are not mine to go to. </p><p></p><p>I am so sorry you are in this situation with your son. I had a read of some of your threads and got the gist of what's been happening for you. I had the impression you are caught between a rock and a hard place with him, if he is with you or away from you, you worry. I can see you love him a whole lot! I read your very first thread and a more recent one and saw he made progress. You have too. Maybe it doesn't feel like it today. </p><p></p><p>I don't know what your situation would be like. Hard, I think. This is not the same but I was reminded when My brother lived with me for a very short time when I was in my 20's. He smoked marajuana all day and raved about Adolf hitler who he idolised. War history was another favoured topic. I have no interest in war and no knowledge of history either. I found it so hard to find space for me that didn't feel permeated by his opinions and the smell of his drugs. </p><p></p><p>He left after I blew up...I tried many times to lay down a few rules so we could co-exist but he wasn't listening to me. I just couldn't take it anymore. I was sad that it got to that point. We had gotten on OK when we visited each other. </p><p>Best wishes. </p><p></p><p>I feel a bit brighter today....making progress. Might go backwards tomorrow but staying in today just in case.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Slimothy, post: 687962, member: 20314"] Hi Copa, I think whats happened is that I have kicked off some shame and self blame. I still hurt like heck...I just love her so much and want to wrap her in my arms and make everything go away. But the child is gone, and the adult I knew as my daughter is gone too. And she's too old to be wrapped up! ...its not me holding her anymore. Anyway, thats just the sort of horrible imagery inspiring yucky thinking I am going to work letting go of. It just takes me to places that are not mine to go to. I am so sorry you are in this situation with your son. I had a read of some of your threads and got the gist of what's been happening for you. I had the impression you are caught between a rock and a hard place with him, if he is with you or away from you, you worry. I can see you love him a whole lot! I read your very first thread and a more recent one and saw he made progress. You have too. Maybe it doesn't feel like it today. I don't know what your situation would be like. Hard, I think. This is not the same but I was reminded when My brother lived with me for a very short time when I was in my 20's. He smoked marajuana all day and raved about Adolf hitler who he idolised. War history was another favoured topic. I have no interest in war and no knowledge of history either. I found it so hard to find space for me that didn't feel permeated by his opinions and the smell of his drugs. He left after I blew up...I tried many times to lay down a few rules so we could co-exist but he wasn't listening to me. I just couldn't take it anymore. I was sad that it got to that point. We had gotten on OK when we visited each other. Best wishes. I feel a bit brighter today....making progress. Might go backwards tomorrow but staying in today just in case. [/QUOTE]
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