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My daughter is killing me.......slowly
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 735798" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Nobody is ready for the streets. There are shelters though, food pantries,all kinds of help. When my immature 19 year old would not stop doing drugs I made her leave. And she wasn't even disrespectful, I just didn't want her dying of an overdose in my house. I didn't want to contribute to her downfall by making it nice and cozy for her to kill herself. I wanted to make it as hard as humanely.possible for her to do meth and cocaine. The hardest day ever was putting her out. And she had found a safe place to stay, as long as she followed the rules. One lit cigarette under his roof and she would be out and homeless. Her very straight arrow brother tolerated nothing in his house and gave no second chances and she knew it.</p><p></p><p>So she went and didn't want to be homeless and knew no help would come from us. We had to make that clear. She had to obey the rules of where she was...very strict ones. She did. She quit. She quit meth and cocaine.</p><p></p><p>She is doing great twelve or so sober years later. She has a career, a house, my darling granddaughter.</p><p></p><p>If your daughter is stealing from you, she may well be doing more than just smoking.pot.</p><p></p><p>I would get YOURSELF into therapy. You need to learn to cope and deal with her. You also need to learn that you matter and need to put yourself first if somebody is abusing you. Your daughter is committing domestic abuse. Yes, an adult child can do this. Yes, she IS! You need help and direction in this difficult situation. Your sister should not have to deal with her abuse either.</p><p></p><p>Please be good to yourself. Get therapy. Love and life.</p><p></p><p>Hugs!</p><p></p><p></p><p>...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 735798, member: 1550"] Nobody is ready for the streets. There are shelters though, food pantries,all kinds of help. When my immature 19 year old would not stop doing drugs I made her leave. And she wasn't even disrespectful, I just didn't want her dying of an overdose in my house. I didn't want to contribute to her downfall by making it nice and cozy for her to kill herself. I wanted to make it as hard as humanely.possible for her to do meth and cocaine. The hardest day ever was putting her out. And she had found a safe place to stay, as long as she followed the rules. One lit cigarette under his roof and she would be out and homeless. Her very straight arrow brother tolerated nothing in his house and gave no second chances and she knew it. So she went and didn't want to be homeless and knew no help would come from us. We had to make that clear. She had to obey the rules of where she was...very strict ones. She did. She quit. She quit meth and cocaine. She is doing great twelve or so sober years later. She has a career, a house, my darling granddaughter. If your daughter is stealing from you, she may well be doing more than just smoking.pot. I would get YOURSELF into therapy. You need to learn to cope and deal with her. You also need to learn that you matter and need to put yourself first if somebody is abusing you. Your daughter is committing domestic abuse. Yes, an adult child can do this. Yes, she IS! You need help and direction in this difficult situation. Your sister should not have to deal with her abuse either. Please be good to yourself. Get therapy. Love and life. Hugs! ... [/QUOTE]
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