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My estranged son 45 is trying to get me arrested at 73 yrs old,!
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<blockquote data-quote="Deni D" data-source="post: 763177" data-attributes="member: 22840"><p>Hi Frettfull, what a terrible situation for you. I can tell you when my son was at his worst, if he had come across information that he could sue me for abuse, he would have tried it. In my situation it would have been different than yours because when my son was so disconnected from reality he claimed he was emotionally and physically abused by me personally. Now that he's back to taking care of himself he would never consider anything like that but it was more than horrible to hear what he said to me and about me. </p><p></p><p>In your case though it seems your son's claims would be because you didn't stop the investigating authorities from abusing him. I would, of course, do whatever your solicitor tells you to do, but I would also go about getting as much of the paperwork you have and records you can get that address the accusations and investigations from when your daughter accused her dad so you have that information in case anything becomes of this. </p><p></p><p>I hope this gets resolved quickly for you, I know how heartbreaking it is. Just remember that anyone can say anything. It doesn't make you guilty even though as mom you wonder what you could have done differently and feel the mom guilt because your child is suffering. And frankly it seems if he had a claim to sue anyone it would be the authorities. It's quite different to be in a position to protect children from an individual than it is to protect them from an over zealous child protective organization.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Deni D, post: 763177, member: 22840"] Hi Frettfull, what a terrible situation for you. I can tell you when my son was at his worst, if he had come across information that he could sue me for abuse, he would have tried it. In my situation it would have been different than yours because when my son was so disconnected from reality he claimed he was emotionally and physically abused by me personally. Now that he's back to taking care of himself he would never consider anything like that but it was more than horrible to hear what he said to me and about me. In your case though it seems your son's claims would be because you didn't stop the investigating authorities from abusing him. I would, of course, do whatever your solicitor tells you to do, but I would also go about getting as much of the paperwork you have and records you can get that address the accusations and investigations from when your daughter accused her dad so you have that information in case anything becomes of this. I hope this gets resolved quickly for you, I know how heartbreaking it is. Just remember that anyone can say anything. It doesn't make you guilty even though as mom you wonder what you could have done differently and feel the mom guilt because your child is suffering. And frankly it seems if he had a claim to sue anyone it would be the authorities. It's quite different to be in a position to protect children from an individual than it is to protect them from an over zealous child protective organization. [/QUOTE]
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