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My husband and I are Detaching
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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 605895" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Your friend made choices just like your difficult child. You shouldn't pay for her bad choices. I can understand you wanting to help since it's your son, but you're not responsible for her ignoring what you said and moving forward against your wishes. Personally, I think you're being taken advantage of. As I've witnessed in my own life, once we make these difficult choices with our kids, others in our lives begin to look suspicious as well. You might want to examine this relationship with your friend to see if you have any enabling tendencies with her. She really has no right to blame you and ask you to pay for anything. You're right, it is entirely unfair. Perhaps pay her and then slip out of that connection. You deserve better friends!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 605895, member: 13542"] Your friend made choices just like your difficult child. You shouldn't pay for her bad choices. I can understand you wanting to help since it's your son, but you're not responsible for her ignoring what you said and moving forward against your wishes. Personally, I think you're being taken advantage of. As I've witnessed in my own life, once we make these difficult choices with our kids, others in our lives begin to look suspicious as well. You might want to examine this relationship with your friend to see if you have any enabling tendencies with her. She really has no right to blame you and ask you to pay for anything. You're right, it is entirely unfair. Perhaps pay her and then slip out of that connection. You deserve better friends! [/QUOTE]
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