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<blockquote data-quote="AngelaMia aka Merris" data-source="post: 82309" data-attributes="member: 3978"><p>I talked to difficult child last night. He told me that anytime I need to "talk" I should call him. He doesn't know that a lot of my problem is HIM and since he's on such a slippery slope right now, I don't know if I should tell him.</p><p></p><p>He's got 9 years over his head, and he's already been in the presence of people smoking pot. I really feel done. I really feel like I am used up and I can't take anymore. I look at him and I wonder if I really even care anymore. I love my son, but this person is SO selfish, SO immature, SO self-interested that I cannot even fathom where he came from.</p><p></p><p>I got a letter from husband's lawyer last night accusing me of stealing his expense checks and using them to buy things for me and my son. I called husband and left him a voicemail crying, asking him how he could possibly accuse me of that. There were NEVER late bills, I paid them all on time and I struggled to do so. His spending was out of control and he is now blaming it on me. I am giving up. Let him leave the country and marry his next victim (wife #3 is lined up and ready to go!). I will heal.</p><p></p><p>I sent a letter to my lawyer and told her just to settle for what he wants. I can't do this anymore and though I know these things are not true, I am tired of defending myself when I know it will all end up the same. If I fight, it will end up costing me more legal fees. If I don't fight, I will spend the rest of my life feeling like he walked on me AGAIN.</p><p></p><p>I still have not heard from my step-daughter's mother. I guess I have lost contact there as well.</p><p></p><p>Sigh. I am SO tired.</p><p></p><p>Thanks for joining my pity party. :smile:</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AngelaMia aka Merris, post: 82309, member: 3978"] I talked to difficult child last night. He told me that anytime I need to "talk" I should call him. He doesn't know that a lot of my problem is HIM and since he's on such a slippery slope right now, I don't know if I should tell him. He's got 9 years over his head, and he's already been in the presence of people smoking pot. I really feel done. I really feel like I am used up and I can't take anymore. I look at him and I wonder if I really even care anymore. I love my son, but this person is SO selfish, SO immature, SO self-interested that I cannot even fathom where he came from. I got a letter from husband's lawyer last night accusing me of stealing his expense checks and using them to buy things for me and my son. I called husband and left him a voicemail crying, asking him how he could possibly accuse me of that. There were NEVER late bills, I paid them all on time and I struggled to do so. His spending was out of control and he is now blaming it on me. I am giving up. Let him leave the country and marry his next victim (wife #3 is lined up and ready to go!). I will heal. I sent a letter to my lawyer and told her just to settle for what he wants. I can't do this anymore and though I know these things are not true, I am tired of defending myself when I know it will all end up the same. If I fight, it will end up costing me more legal fees. If I don't fight, I will spend the rest of my life feeling like he walked on me AGAIN. I still have not heard from my step-daughter's mother. I guess I have lost contact there as well. Sigh. I am SO tired. Thanks for joining my pity party. [img]:smile:[/img] [/QUOTE]
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