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Dear Jed, I know how much you are worrying about him. Please try to get some counselling to help you detach. Worrying will not help him and will only hurt your health. He is an adult man and is making poor choices. You didn't cause this and you can't cure it. Help yourself so that if the opportunity arises where you can help your son, you will be able to from a position of strength, balance and well-being. All best wishes to you!