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<blockquote data-quote="Quicksand" data-source="post: 675159" data-attributes="member: 19405"><p>He sent many texts to my husband and I. I said ,all of this over simply wanting to talk to you about the pot. He did tell me that his therapist said he thought it would be ok if he smoked pot when he was going to have a freak out. But he didn't tell me that he went and got some and then to try to "party" with my daughter. I asked him why he didn't tell me or dad that he had it and would use it in an emergency.. He's just using it whenever. I would have had a rational discussion with him had he told me. Instead I find out because he is sneaking behind our backs. He just kept saying its none of our business. He said we are sh&t parents and to just forget he exists. He said we are sick and 100% wrong. He sent a text to my husband saying I wish you would have taken a swing at me. He told us to have his stuff waiting for him because he will be picking it up tomorrow (today). He said if we knew what he's been through, we would understand why he is the way he is..but he won't say, he's just vague. I told him he needs to get into sober living but that went ignored. My husband and I both want to vomit. If I wouldn't have said anything tonight, he'd be in bliss in his room and my daughter would be packing to leave in the morning. Seriously, she matters too! And so do we. What a sh&t storm. God, can you hear me? I know he has been diagnosed and I don't know the details of what happened to him but here in this house(that he claims was hell) - he was loved and did get away with too much. He had the best we could give and many opportunities and therapists and family vacations, outward bound, and much love from grandparents and us and pets and on.. I thought a normal, loving home. I can't get this out of my head- when he was 16, he was in trouble for not going to school and I said-we are going to take the car away if you are going to just skip school and drive around.. His reply was if you don't let me drive, I will do something that will make you not proud of me. That shocked me and honestly, I'll admit- we continued to let him use his car. Bad move. Bad,bad move. But that pretty sums it up with him, he's been holding us hostage for years.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Quicksand, post: 675159, member: 19405"] He sent many texts to my husband and I. I said ,all of this over simply wanting to talk to you about the pot. He did tell me that his therapist said he thought it would be ok if he smoked pot when he was going to have a freak out. But he didn't tell me that he went and got some and then to try to "party" with my daughter. I asked him why he didn't tell me or dad that he had it and would use it in an emergency.. He's just using it whenever. I would have had a rational discussion with him had he told me. Instead I find out because he is sneaking behind our backs. He just kept saying its none of our business. He said we are sh&t parents and to just forget he exists. He said we are sick and 100% wrong. He sent a text to my husband saying I wish you would have taken a swing at me. He told us to have his stuff waiting for him because he will be picking it up tomorrow (today). He said if we knew what he's been through, we would understand why he is the way he is..but he won't say, he's just vague. I told him he needs to get into sober living but that went ignored. My husband and I both want to vomit. If I wouldn't have said anything tonight, he'd be in bliss in his room and my daughter would be packing to leave in the morning. Seriously, she matters too! And so do we. What a sh&t storm. God, can you hear me? I know he has been diagnosed and I don't know the details of what happened to him but here in this house(that he claims was hell) - he was loved and did get away with too much. He had the best we could give and many opportunities and therapists and family vacations, outward bound, and much love from grandparents and us and pets and on.. I thought a normal, loving home. I can't get this out of my head- when he was 16, he was in trouble for not going to school and I said-we are going to take the car away if you are going to just skip school and drive around.. His reply was if you don't let me drive, I will do something that will make you not proud of me. That shocked me and honestly, I'll admit- we continued to let him use his car. Bad move. Bad,bad move. But that pretty sums it up with him, he's been holding us hostage for years. [/QUOTE]
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