Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
My son is spiraling down
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 675390" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>It never ceases to amaze me, how we torment ourselves as parents <em>with worry</em>,</p><p>then our d cs show up or call, like <em>nothing </em>is happening.</p><p></p><p>It is a part of this<em> game</em>.</p><p>I do not want to be a player,</p><p>or a pawn in the game.</p><p>It is too, too hard, and wears on my soul.</p><p>So, out of the game, I go, with faith and prayers.</p><p></p><p>You and I, QS, we are the same, we go through the<em> same</em> feelings.</p><p>You are teaching me, as well, we are all sharing and teaching one another.</p><p>Who better a teacher, than one who shares the load and journey with us?</p><p></p><p>So, yes, breathe, slow... way... down..., put this experience in your tool chest.</p><p>You and I, and others will both be going through many more stages and tests with this.</p><p>Each time, we are meant to come out of it, a bit stronger, a bit wiser.</p><p></p><p>I am glad you are here, sharing your story.</p><p>Though, <em><strong>I so wish</strong></em> it were not necessary,</p><p>for some reason, we were chosen to bare this.</p><p>I hope we will learn what we are supposed to learn from it,</p><p>and our d cs, will eventually figure out what they were meant to do with <em>their lives</em>.</p><p></p><p>In the meantime, take good, good care of <em><strong>yourself, your husband, your daughter</strong>. </em></p><p>They are there, with you, supporting you, <em>loving you, as you should be loved.</em></p><p></p><p>Put on some music, that calms and soothes you,</p><p>look at that beautiful daughter of yours,</p><p>and enjoy each others time together.</p><p>Give her long and big hugs,</p><p>hugs have healing powers,</p><p>it is proven scientifically.</p><p>The <em>hugger</em> and <em>huggee</em> both benefit. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite2" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=";)" /></p><p></p><p>Thank you QS, for sharing your journey. It is helpful to all of us, who are going through similar challenges.</p><p></p><p>My son and I are getting our house ready, for the great cookie making on Wednesday evening.</p><p>It is our Christmas tradition to make yummy, colorful rolled sugar cookies.</p><p>I will try not to eat too many......<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/bag.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":bag:" title="bag :bag:" data-shortname=":bag:" /></p><p></p><p>Joyful Holidays to you dear, and remember,</p><p>let your life light shine brightly.......</p><p>Take time to refresh, rebuild, restore,</p><p>get out there and<em> live your life to the fullest.</em></p><p></p><p>BE the candle!</p><p></p><p>(((HUGS)))</p><p>leafy</p><p></p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/Graemlins/11-24d.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":rudolph:" title="Rudolph :rudolph:" data-shortname=":rudolph:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 675390, member: 19522"] It never ceases to amaze me, how we torment ourselves as parents [I]with worry[/I], then our d cs show up or call, like [I]nothing [/I]is happening. It is a part of this[I] game[/I]. I do not want to be a player, or a pawn in the game. It is too, too hard, and wears on my soul. So, out of the game, I go, with faith and prayers. You and I, QS, we are the same, we go through the[I] same[/I] feelings. You are teaching me, as well, we are all sharing and teaching one another. Who better a teacher, than one who shares the load and journey with us? So, yes, breathe, slow... way... down..., put this experience in your tool chest. You and I, and others will both be going through many more stages and tests with this. Each time, we are meant to come out of it, a bit stronger, a bit wiser. I am glad you are here, sharing your story. Though, [I][B]I so wish[/B][/I] it were not necessary, for some reason, we were chosen to bare this. I hope we will learn what we are supposed to learn from it, and our d cs, will eventually figure out what they were meant to do with [I]their lives[/I]. In the meantime, take good, good care of [I][B]yourself, your husband, your daughter[/B]. [/I] They are there, with you, supporting you, [I]loving you, as you should be loved.[/I] Put on some music, that calms and soothes you, look at that beautiful daughter of yours, and enjoy each others time together. Give her long and big hugs, hugs have healing powers, it is proven scientifically. The [I]hugger[/I] and [I]huggee[/I] both benefit. ;) Thank you QS, for sharing your journey. It is helpful to all of us, who are going through similar challenges. My son and I are getting our house ready, for the great cookie making on Wednesday evening. It is our Christmas tradition to make yummy, colorful rolled sugar cookies. I will try not to eat too many......:bag: Joyful Holidays to you dear, and remember, let your life light shine brightly....... Take time to refresh, rebuild, restore, get out there and[I] live your life to the fullest.[/I] BE the candle! (((HUGS))) leafy :rudolph: [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
My son is spiraling down
Top