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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 739095" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Swot crawled to a goal. I celebrate her. </p><p></p><p>For many of our kids, the goal is us. Like a squirrel with a nut they seek to crack us</p><p></p><p>It is this we need to change.</p><p></p><p>We cannot be that nut.</p><p></p><p>Just think. If our sons put as a substitute for that nut (replacing us) a job, faith, self care, rehab, what would that look like?</p><p></p><p>The job is ours. To remove that option.</p><p></p><p>We have come to the lunacy where we believe along with them that we are their sustenance, their saving grace, their remedy. We believe or act like we do, that we are their nut.</p><p></p><p>This is not true.</p><p></p><p>No matter how many times they tell us we are their NUT we need to resist. No matter how much we feel we should be sustaining and saving them, and resolving their problems, this is NUTS.</p><p></p><p>I AM NOT YOUR NUT.</p><p></p><p>I resist.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 739095, member: 18958"] Swot crawled to a goal. I celebrate her. For many of our kids, the goal is us. Like a squirrel with a nut they seek to crack us It is this we need to change. We cannot be that nut. Just think. If our sons put as a substitute for that nut (replacing us) a job, faith, self care, rehab, what would that look like? The job is ours. To remove that option. We have come to the lunacy where we believe along with them that we are their sustenance, their saving grace, their remedy. We believe or act like we do, that we are their nut. This is not true. No matter how many times they tell us we are their NUT we need to resist. No matter how much we feel we should be sustaining and saving them, and resolving their problems, this is NUTS. I AM NOT YOUR NUT. I resist. [/QUOTE]
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