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<blockquote data-quote="Suz" data-source="post: 73799" data-attributes="member: 29"><p><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> i have got lots to do - i guess i will go do it - trying to figure out solutions so our lives want be so chaotic is exhausting </div></div></p><p></p><p>I echo BBK's wisdom, Susan. </p><p></p><p>Your son is 24 and doesn't seem to be any farther along in the maturation process than he probably was at 16 or 18. Sometimes you need to create a calculated crisis (NOT chaos) to enact change. It sounds like your son needs some heavy duty natural consequences to go the next step.</p><p></p><p>Tend to your life, your life with husband and your life with easy child. Your son needs to have his own life, independent of yours. It's a gift you give him.</p><p></p><p>Suz</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Suz, post: 73799, member: 29"] <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> i have got lots to do - i guess i will go do it - trying to figure out solutions so our lives want be so chaotic is exhausting </div></div> I echo BBK's wisdom, Susan. Your son is 24 and doesn't seem to be any farther along in the maturation process than he probably was at 16 or 18. Sometimes you need to create a calculated crisis (NOT chaos) to enact change. It sounds like your son needs some heavy duty natural consequences to go the next step. Tend to your life, your life with husband and your life with easy child. Your son needs to have his own life, independent of yours. It's a gift you give him. Suz [/QUOTE]
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