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<blockquote data-quote="Steely" data-source="post: 74853" data-attributes="member: 3301"><p>From a very outside, objective opinion.......in my opinion it seems that you do not feel like a completely different person or entity from your son. If someone was to draw an outline of the 2 of you - somewhere the outlines of your souls would overlap and become one.</p><p>He hurts, you hurt - he needs, you need - he blames, you blame......you are like one organism...........rather than 2 completely separate people, minds, and souls.</p><p>This perhaps is the reason you are finding it so hard to detach - because you have actually, literally, grown into one being. You are enmeshed, and therefore, whatever he does, feels, or experiences - you do, feel, and experience as well.</p><p></p><p>You must, methodically, and with help, remove your being from his. Or neither of you will ever be happy.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Steely, post: 74853, member: 3301"] From a very outside, objective opinion.......in my opinion it seems that you do not feel like a completely different person or entity from your son. If someone was to draw an outline of the 2 of you - somewhere the outlines of your souls would overlap and become one. He hurts, you hurt - he needs, you need - he blames, you blame......you are like one organism...........rather than 2 completely separate people, minds, and souls. This perhaps is the reason you are finding it so hard to detach - because you have actually, literally, grown into one being. You are enmeshed, and therefore, whatever he does, feels, or experiences - you do, feel, and experience as well. You must, methodically, and with help, remove your being from his. Or neither of you will ever be happy. [/QUOTE]
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