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<blockquote data-quote="rebelson" data-source="post: 695422" data-attributes="member: 19966"><p>RN - </p><p></p><p>He's trying to pull one over on you & hub. </p><p></p><p>ALL (not some) of those sober living IOP houses in Delray help every addict sign up for FOOD STAMPS, like, on week ONE. So, either your son already gets food stamps (& you are or aren't aware of this) OR he did not feel like going thru the work to get them. The amount isn't too shabby either, around $194/month. </p><p></p><p>As for the tickets, he has 30+ days to pay them. You and hub should NOT pay them for him, then have him pay you. This is what enabling, rescuing is. I get it though. I have paid plenty of tickets, other things for my son. Regretfully. </p><p></p><p>I think we do this out of selfishness. "We" feel better knowing the tickets are paid. Do you really think "he" is losing sleep over unpaid tickets? </p><p></p><p>Not.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rebelson, post: 695422, member: 19966"] RN - He's trying to pull one over on you & hub. ALL (not some) of those sober living IOP houses in Delray help every addict sign up for FOOD STAMPS, like, on week ONE. So, either your son already gets food stamps (& you are or aren't aware of this) OR he did not feel like going thru the work to get them. The amount isn't too shabby either, around $194/month. As for the tickets, he has 30+ days to pay them. You and hub should NOT pay them for him, then have him pay you. This is what enabling, rescuing is. I get it though. I have paid plenty of tickets, other things for my son. Regretfully. I think we do this out of selfishness. "We" feel better knowing the tickets are paid. Do you really think "he" is losing sleep over unpaid tickets? Not. [/QUOTE]
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