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Need Advice-19 yr old college son trying marijuanna and ?
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<blockquote data-quote="SunnyFlorida" data-source="post: 7561" data-attributes="member: 696"><p>Hi and welcome. Your difficult child is playing you!</p><p></p><p>If you found bags in his car....he's sloppy.</p><p></p><p>I'd let him keep the clunker and not a new car. I'd sign the car over to him so when it does get confiscated...you won't be the owner. You can still assist him with the insurance if you choose, but your name should not be on the title. He's shown you that he's not responsible.</p><p></p><p>I'd pay for his tuition if his grades are decent, but I'd encourage him to possibly stay wherever he is during the holidays and maybe get a partime job.</p><p></p><p>I think you are creating a monster issue if you put rules such as no sleepovers, 2am curfew, etc in place. Your difficult child is over 18 and an adult. As long as he's respectful in the home and doesn't bring illegal substances into your home or in or on your property, I could care less when they came home. He's only going to be there for what...maybe a month?</p><p></p><p>I also wouldn't fund much though!</p><p></p><p>Time to cut those apron strings as it seems your difficult child can adequately manage on his own.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SunnyFlorida, post: 7561, member: 696"] Hi and welcome. Your difficult child is playing you! If you found bags in his car....he's sloppy. I'd let him keep the clunker and not a new car. I'd sign the car over to him so when it does get confiscated...you won't be the owner. You can still assist him with the insurance if you choose, but your name should not be on the title. He's shown you that he's not responsible. I'd pay for his tuition if his grades are decent, but I'd encourage him to possibly stay wherever he is during the holidays and maybe get a partime job. I think you are creating a monster issue if you put rules such as no sleepovers, 2am curfew, etc in place. Your difficult child is over 18 and an adult. As long as he's respectful in the home and doesn't bring illegal substances into your home or in or on your property, I could care less when they came home. He's only going to be there for what...maybe a month? I also wouldn't fund much though! Time to cut those apron strings as it seems your difficult child can adequately manage on his own. [/QUOTE]
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