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Need Advice-19 yr old college son trying marijuanna and ?
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<blockquote data-quote="kris" data-source="post: 7565" data-attributes="member: 74"><p><font color="blue">welcome to the board. hopefully we will be able to help you & your wife.</p><p></p><p>where does wife stand on all this. are the two of you coming from the same place?</p><p></p><p>i'd pay his tuition for one more semester to see how the grades are going. i would cut off the money flow immediately. he's using the money you are giving him to buy his pot for heavens sake. he can get himself a part time jog....the college will even help him. yes, i'd give him the older car....and get your name removed. i'd pay car insurance for one more semester then he'd be on his own....unless he mends his way.</p><p></p><p>the amount of pot he was carrying & the fact that it was bagged individually is a huge flag that he's not just using....he's dealing.</p><p></p><p>wouldn't give him a curfew & rules. just an excuse for him to disobey. i wouldn't let him come home. i just wouldn't. you really have to play hardball here. he can come for christmas dinner, but no overnight (well maybe one night), but that's it. </p><p></p><p>go to your local bookstore & get yourself a copy of the tough love books. you're going to need them.</p><p></p><p>i can tell this has all come as a huge shock to you & you are probably quaking in your boots. you have to stay strong & you have to follow threw with-anything you tell him you're going to do. </p><p></p><p>hang in. the members here will be here to support you & wife.</p><p></p><p>kris </font></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="kris, post: 7565, member: 74"] <font color="blue">welcome to the board. hopefully we will be able to help you & your wife. where does wife stand on all this. are the two of you coming from the same place? i'd pay his tuition for one more semester to see how the grades are going. i would cut off the money flow immediately. he's using the money you are giving him to buy his pot for heavens sake. he can get himself a part time jog....the college will even help him. yes, i'd give him the older car....and get your name removed. i'd pay car insurance for one more semester then he'd be on his own....unless he mends his way. the amount of pot he was carrying & the fact that it was bagged individually is a huge flag that he's not just using....he's dealing. wouldn't give him a curfew & rules. just an excuse for him to disobey. i wouldn't let him come home. i just wouldn't. you really have to play hardball here. he can come for christmas dinner, but no overnight (well maybe one night), but that's it. go to your local bookstore & get yourself a copy of the tough love books. you're going to need them. i can tell this has all come as a huge shock to you & you are probably quaking in your boots. you have to stay strong & you have to follow threw with-anything you tell him you're going to do. hang in. the members here will be here to support you & wife. kris </font> [/QUOTE]
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