Hi,
I edited my post 2.49 pm 31 Jan.
I prefer older difficult children not to be at home. Being at home does something to their brains.
in my humble opinion I think we need to follow Fran's advice - expect the best and plan for the worst. To expect the best , you must have a vision , and a plan to go with it and of course have a back up plan when things go wrong.
Allan
