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<blockquote data-quote="Sister's Keeper" data-source="post: 689945" data-attributes="member: 20051"><p>Actually, I disagree with the rest. I think if he was previously invited and the entire family is going, meaning his siblings, it seems unfair, and actually mean, to uninvite him now. </p><p></p><p>Yes, he has screwed up, he made bad choices, but he seems to be making good choices now. I think it wouldn't do much to encourage his progress to say, "everyone is invited but you, because you effed up." </p><p></p><p>It seems, to me, that the invitation was offered, initially, without strings attached, so I can't imagine now telling him, "we decided you can't go." </p><p></p><p>I would insist that if this is a hill your husband wants to die on then he tell your son that he is uninvited, and make sure that he knows that you are not in agreement. ....I also think that, yes, this could potentially damage a relationship. Grown or not, I would feel hurt if I thought that my parent didn't go to bat for me.</p><p></p><p>FTR, I hate the silent treatment. So childish.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sister's Keeper, post: 689945, member: 20051"] Actually, I disagree with the rest. I think if he was previously invited and the entire family is going, meaning his siblings, it seems unfair, and actually mean, to uninvite him now. Yes, he has screwed up, he made bad choices, but he seems to be making good choices now. I think it wouldn't do much to encourage his progress to say, "everyone is invited but you, because you effed up." It seems, to me, that the invitation was offered, initially, without strings attached, so I can't imagine now telling him, "we decided you can't go." I would insist that if this is a hill your husband wants to die on then he tell your son that he is uninvited, and make sure that he knows that you are not in agreement. ....I also think that, yes, this could potentially damage a relationship. Grown or not, I would feel hurt if I thought that my parent didn't go to bat for me. FTR, I hate the silent treatment. So childish. [/QUOTE]
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