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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 690059" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Honest to g-d, I think this is where the real problem lies. WSM has to carry all of the pain and responsibility in this, and pay the price for all. I am so in agreement with you, Sister's Keeper.</p><p></p><p>While I can see husband's point of view--sick of seeing you suffer, WSM--he seems to be indifferent himself to making you suffer, or to your bearing all of the responsibility for making things right.</p><p></p><p>I know in any relationship each partner must cede sometimes, give in to make things work but there is usually a give and take. Not on person gives all and one person takes all. </p><p></p><p>I know I give in a lot. I do it for love and I do it for responsibility. But I know that each of us gives sometimes. If I felt an inequity, I would be forced to think about whether the relationship was a healthy one. I think this is sister's keepers point of view.</p><p></p><p>I feel badly that husband does not see or care the price you are paying, WSM. Maybe that is the elephant in the living room. Maybe son is helping you see and face this.</p><p></p><p>Sometimes things happen for a reason. I am sorry you are suffering WSM.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 690059, member: 18958"] Honest to g-d, I think this is where the real problem lies. WSM has to carry all of the pain and responsibility in this, and pay the price for all. I am so in agreement with you, Sister's Keeper. While I can see husband's point of view--sick of seeing you suffer, WSM--he seems to be indifferent himself to making you suffer, or to your bearing all of the responsibility for making things right. I know in any relationship each partner must cede sometimes, give in to make things work but there is usually a give and take. Not on person gives all and one person takes all. I know I give in a lot. I do it for love and I do it for responsibility. But I know that each of us gives sometimes. If I felt an inequity, I would be forced to think about whether the relationship was a healthy one. I think this is sister's keepers point of view. I feel badly that husband does not see or care the price you are paying, WSM. Maybe that is the elephant in the living room. Maybe son is helping you see and face this. Sometimes things happen for a reason. I am sorry you are suffering WSM. [/QUOTE]
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