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Need clarity on this situation; stealing and lying and rehab
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<blockquote data-quote="Origami" data-source="post: 726178" data-attributes="member: 18099"><p>I talked to my husband last night and asked him what his thoughts were about our son after rehab. He said he didn't think he'd be coming back to our house, and was under the impression that he would seek housing assistance through the rehab center. He said he doesn't want him living with us again. So I guess we were more on the same page than I thought we were.</p><p></p><p>I asked my son's wife to ask him where he pawned the guitar when she talked to him last night. She said he told her he hasn't seen the guitar and didn't take it anywhere. I expected him to deny it, but was hoping he'd tell the truth. Next, I'll ask him about the $500 cash advance and give him a chance to lie about that one. My husband wondered why I'm bothering asking him about these when I know he'll deny it, and I just said I want to let him know that we know, whether he'll admit it or not.</p><p></p><p>I found a Nar-Anon group I can go to, so will try to get there next week. Husband can't go because of his work schedule, but he's open to my ideas. I've been telling him about all the advice from you guys, and he's appreciative although would never go on a forum himself.</p><p></p><p></p><p>SWOT, don't worry about being harsh! I'm used to you by now <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> and your advice is always welcome. And thanks to everyone else for the good advice. I feel more confident now that we won't be abandoning him if we don't house him again, but rather letting his decisions play out.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Origami, post: 726178, member: 18099"] I talked to my husband last night and asked him what his thoughts were about our son after rehab. He said he didn't think he'd be coming back to our house, and was under the impression that he would seek housing assistance through the rehab center. He said he doesn't want him living with us again. So I guess we were more on the same page than I thought we were. I asked my son's wife to ask him where he pawned the guitar when she talked to him last night. She said he told her he hasn't seen the guitar and didn't take it anywhere. I expected him to deny it, but was hoping he'd tell the truth. Next, I'll ask him about the $500 cash advance and give him a chance to lie about that one. My husband wondered why I'm bothering asking him about these when I know he'll deny it, and I just said I want to let him know that we know, whether he'll admit it or not. I found a Nar-Anon group I can go to, so will try to get there next week. Husband can't go because of his work schedule, but he's open to my ideas. I've been telling him about all the advice from you guys, and he's appreciative although would never go on a forum himself. SWOT, don't worry about being harsh! I'm used to you by now :-) and your advice is always welcome. And thanks to everyone else for the good advice. I feel more confident now that we won't be abandoning him if we don't house him again, but rather letting his decisions play out. [/QUOTE]
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