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<blockquote data-quote="Giulia" data-source="post: 530893" data-attributes="member: 14306"><p>Dotty, I will abide with what the others said. </p><p></p><p>Concentrate on <u>your</u> life, not on your daughter's and Bozo. </p><p>Solve <u>your</u> personal issues, not your daughter's one. </p><p>When you start to solve your issues, then you will be able to concentrate or not with your daughter's relationship. But right now, it's not the main problem. </p><p>Concentrating about your daughter's relationship now is putting the cart before the horse. </p><p></p><p>It was when I cut any relationship with my dad -more difficult child than me at 58 yo - and concentrate on my fight to make a law change that the relationship went easier. It lasted a year and a half before we could think about building a relationship again. His wife is now out of my life, I consider her as a waste in a garbage. </p><p>He complains about my refusal of relationship, whatever it is, with his wife ? It's his problem, not mine. </p><p>He complains because I refuse drunk driving ? And mom complains too ? Their problem, not mine. </p><p>I have been there done that with my dad, and the abuse's brain, his wife. Dad was only a follower, his wife was the brain as a psychologist. I have more against the brain than the ship.</p><p>I am lucky that my sister is on the same page as me about this problem, so it eases the matter a bit. </p><p></p><p>Do something you truly enjoy. You want to advocate for ecology ? Do it. You want to travel ? Do it. </p><p>Whatever you want. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Hang in there, you're not alone</p><p></p><p>See a therapist if you think you need it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Giulia, post: 530893, member: 14306"] Dotty, I will abide with what the others said. Concentrate on [U]your[/U] life, not on your daughter's and Bozo. Solve [U]your[/U] personal issues, not your daughter's one. When you start to solve your issues, then you will be able to concentrate or not with your daughter's relationship. But right now, it's not the main problem. Concentrating about your daughter's relationship now is putting the cart before the horse. It was when I cut any relationship with my dad -more difficult child than me at 58 yo - and concentrate on my fight to make a law change that the relationship went easier. It lasted a year and a half before we could think about building a relationship again. His wife is now out of my life, I consider her as a waste in a garbage. He complains about my refusal of relationship, whatever it is, with his wife ? It's his problem, not mine. He complains because I refuse drunk driving ? And mom complains too ? Their problem, not mine. I have been there done that with my dad, and the abuse's brain, his wife. Dad was only a follower, his wife was the brain as a psychologist. I have more against the brain than the ship. I am lucky that my sister is on the same page as me about this problem, so it eases the matter a bit. Do something you truly enjoy. You want to advocate for ecology ? Do it. You want to travel ? Do it. Whatever you want. Hang in there, you're not alone See a therapist if you think you need it. [/QUOTE]
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