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<blockquote data-quote="Snow White" data-source="post: 701649" data-attributes="member: 355"><p>Exactly - She thinks she can fleece everyone with her 'vague' terms but she doesn't fool me (or many in our family who are in medical jobs). I think that her lifestyle also makes her sick - she doesn't eat, drink or live a healthy lifestyle. In the past she says she has had pancreatitis, liver disease, kidney disease, ruptured cysts, etc. The only legitimate one she had was an appendectomy. Love the "worming" comment!!!</p><p></p><p>Her newest best friend has been busy calling the US Embassy, the Canadian Embassy and now Amnesty International over the perceived "mistreatment" of daughter by the Thai medical system. Friend says, "She has a large infected cyst that has ruptured spilling infected fluid into her abdominal cavity. This requires minimum of 3 days in the hospital with IV antibiotics before they determine if she needs surgery. Operating on her now is not an option. The risk of hitting the cyst and spreading the infection is much too dangerous. The hospital is requiring deposits up front. When she could not provide the $1,000 the first hospital needed to run a CT they refused her care. She collapsed on the bathroom floor and was taken to a regional hospital. Now they are demanding money but have at least given her some medication. They have the right to refuse her care and turn her away. This is honestly a matter of life and death. Leaving the hospital without treatment is not an option."</p><p></p><p>This morning, I woke up to this email from my daughter (plus a call from my mom that she was posting my 'insincere comments" on FB) - sure sounds like she has a lot of time to craft these emails:</p><p></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #ff0000"><em>Wow! So you couldn't call. Took your sweet time over the past 24 hours to respond, and that's all you have to say to me as I lay in a bed with sepsis? You clearly don't understand the severity of the situation. You didn't offer me ANY form of help. And this is all I get from you? </em></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #ff0000"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #ff0000"><em>Are you KIDDING ME!? I will be going into surgery! </em></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #ff0000"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #ff0000"><em>"We wish you a speedy recovery." Wow. So. Don't ask for my number. Don't bother picking up my many calls.As a matter of fact. Don't do ANYTHING. YOU'RE REALLY GOOD AT THAT. </em></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #ff0000"><em>This is the blunt honest truth. But we are DONE HERE. You are a neglectful, hateful, selfish bi&#h. And I mean that.The lowest form of a human being. Not only am I completely disgusted by you, but so is everyone else who worked their ASSES off to help me. While you "weren't in the office."</em></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #ff0000"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #ff0000"><em>The fact that you have not offered a flight. Some money for surgery. Or ANYTHING proves that I shouldn't have ever given you another chance. Right now I need all the help that I can get and you left me scrambling! You left me to the <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" />ing wolves! </em></span></span><em><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0)"><span style="font-size: 12px">All it takes is 5 minutes to call someone! If you had even CARED to know how I was doing, you would have asked M for my number.</span></span></em></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #ff0000"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #ff0000"><em>You love me? Yeah. Funny way of showing it. Love isn't abuse or neglect. Love isn't leaving your daughter in a time of serious need. Love isn't abandonment. Love isn't part time. You are not a mother. You may have brought me into this world but I raised MYSELF to be who I am today. That is something you'll never, ever get credit for. </em></span></span><em><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0)"><span style="font-size: 12px">You failed horribly as a parent because you're manipulative and abusive. You are only around when it suits your benefit. But when things are hard? You're never around!</span></span></em></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #ff0000"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #ff0000"><em>I am <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" />ing livid!You are supposed to be showing support NOT making me feel worse. But your absence tells me EVERYTHING. The fact that you haven't called tells me EVERYTHING. </em></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #ff0000"><em>THE FACT THAT YOU STILL HAVE ME BLOCKED ON MESSENGER. TELLS ME EVERYTHING. And you know what? I will NEVER, EVER forgive you for this last stunt you pulled. You had HOW MANY PEOPLE contacting you?</em></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #ff0000"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #ff0000"><em>This is on you. I hope you can live with it. And you better <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" />ing pray they save my life.</em></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #ff0000"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #ff0000"><em>You broke every chance we ever had at any relationship today. And I don't think you care about that.But truthfully. I feel nothing for you now. You'll be blocked from viewing my pages and don't worry. No one will be contacting you. The same treatment, you've given me. </em></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #ff0000"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #ff0000"><em>Leave me the f*$k alone!</em></span></span></p><p></p><p>I can't say this doesn't hurt because it does. I think I actually had the first cry for "me" this morning - all my other ones over the years have been for her.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Snow White, post: 701649, member: 355"] Exactly - She thinks she can fleece everyone with her 'vague' terms but she doesn't fool me (or many in our family who are in medical jobs). I think that her lifestyle also makes her sick - she doesn't eat, drink or live a healthy lifestyle. In the past she says she has had pancreatitis, liver disease, kidney disease, ruptured cysts, etc. The only legitimate one she had was an appendectomy. Love the "worming" comment!!! Her newest best friend has been busy calling the US Embassy, the Canadian Embassy and now Amnesty International over the perceived "mistreatment" of daughter by the Thai medical system. Friend says, "She has a large infected cyst that has ruptured spilling infected fluid into her abdominal cavity. This requires minimum of 3 days in the hospital with IV antibiotics before they determine if she needs surgery. Operating on her now is not an option. The risk of hitting the cyst and spreading the infection is much too dangerous. The hospital is requiring deposits up front. When she could not provide the $1,000 the first hospital needed to run a CT they refused her care. She collapsed on the bathroom floor and was taken to a regional hospital. Now they are demanding money but have at least given her some medication. They have the right to refuse her care and turn her away. This is honestly a matter of life and death. Leaving the hospital without treatment is not an option." This morning, I woke up to this email from my daughter (plus a call from my mom that she was posting my 'insincere comments" on FB) - sure sounds like she has a lot of time to craft these emails: [SIZE=3][COLOR=#ff0000][I]Wow! So you couldn't call. Took your sweet time over the past 24 hours to respond, and that's all you have to say to me as I lay in a bed with sepsis? You clearly don't understand the severity of the situation. You didn't offer me ANY form of help. And this is all I get from you? [/I] [I]Are you KIDDING ME!? I will be going into surgery! [/I] [I]"We wish you a speedy recovery." Wow. So. Don't ask for my number. Don't bother picking up my many calls.As a matter of fact. Don't do ANYTHING. YOU'RE REALLY GOOD AT THAT. [/I] [I]This is the blunt honest truth. But we are DONE HERE. You are a neglectful, hateful, selfish bi&#h. And I mean that.The lowest form of a human being. Not only am I completely disgusted by you, but so is everyone else who worked their ASSES off to help me. While you "weren't in the office."[/I] [I]The fact that you have not offered a flight. Some money for surgery. Or ANYTHING proves that I shouldn't have ever given you another chance. Right now I need all the help that I can get and you left me scrambling! You left me to the :censored2:ing wolves! [/I][/COLOR][/SIZE][I][COLOR=rgb(255, 0, 0)][SIZE=3]All it takes is 5 minutes to call someone! If you had even CARED to know how I was doing, you would have asked M for my number.[/SIZE][/COLOR][/I] [SIZE=3][COLOR=#ff0000] [I]You love me? Yeah. Funny way of showing it. Love isn't abuse or neglect. Love isn't leaving your daughter in a time of serious need. Love isn't abandonment. Love isn't part time. You are not a mother. You may have brought me into this world but I raised MYSELF to be who I am today. That is something you'll never, ever get credit for. [/I][/COLOR][/SIZE][I][COLOR=rgb(255, 0, 0)][SIZE=3]You failed horribly as a parent because you're manipulative and abusive. You are only around when it suits your benefit. But when things are hard? You're never around![/SIZE][/COLOR][/I] [SIZE=3][COLOR=#ff0000] [I]I am :censored2:ing livid!You are supposed to be showing support NOT making me feel worse. But your absence tells me EVERYTHING. The fact that you haven't called tells me EVERYTHING. [/I] [I]THE FACT THAT YOU STILL HAVE ME BLOCKED ON MESSENGER. TELLS ME EVERYTHING. And you know what? I will NEVER, EVER forgive you for this last stunt you pulled. You had HOW MANY PEOPLE contacting you?[/I] [I]This is on you. I hope you can live with it. And you better :censored2:ing pray they save my life.[/I] [I]You broke every chance we ever had at any relationship today. And I don't think you care about that.But truthfully. I feel nothing for you now. You'll be blocked from viewing my pages and don't worry. No one will be contacting you. The same treatment, you've given me. [/I] [I]Leave me the f*$k alone![/I][/COLOR][/SIZE] I can't say this doesn't hurt because it does. I think I actually had the first cry for "me" this morning - all my other ones over the years have been for her. [/QUOTE]
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