Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
Need help (or an intervention) - she stepped up her game
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="Snow White" data-source="post: 713143" data-attributes="member: 355"><p>Thank you so much! Each and every one of you has hit the various nails square on: [USER=17309]@Lil[/USER], @SWOT, [USER=17244]@DoneDad[/USER], [USER=17720]@Albatross[/USER], [USER=1233]@susiestar[/USER] and @recoverningenabler</p><p></p><p>Your insight makes me think you have lived in our house (or at least looked in from above - I believe that's where the angels are)! You have confirmed:</p><ul> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">You can't believe her; you know that. You can't believe she was even in the hospital, much less all the rest.</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">Sounds like she's on a never-ending vacation and expects you to foot the bill for it.</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">NEVER send her a dime. She is a con artist, a thief and a fraud. NEVER let this dangerous sick grown woman live with you again. EVER!!!</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">She is the kind who would insist you have the cops throw her out, and then would claim she had been there overnight at least.</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">You have no cause, NONE, to feel any negativity toward yourself or your parenting, AT ALL. This is her, not on you.</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ul">I would go on my trip (after securing the house) and try to enjoy it.</li> </ul><p>Luckily, in Canada the tenancy laws are different. She wouldn't be able to claim she lived with us. She would have to show proof of rent paid. With the police call history, it wouldn't take much for them to figure it out.</p><p></p><p>I gardened all evening and mulled over the day. It almost frightened me when I came to the conclusion that OUR daughter is really dangerous. I never thought of it in those terms. Made the excuses (she has mental illness, she grew up emotionally challenged, we must have done something wrong, she missed out on _____, blah, blah, blah). She had all the opportunities her brother had (and more). <strong>SHE.....IS......DANGEROUS</strong>. There, I've said it out loud. She has no empathy, no remorse, no sympathy.....nothing. </p><p></p><p>We are going on our trip. Daughter will not be told anything of this. Relatives we are visiting will be warned not to communicate our plans with her. She has been off social media since her escapade in Thailand (says people are after her now). And she thought they would just let this 'breeze over'??? Our son will stay at our house while we are away (taking care of the dogs, too). He will have instructions to call 911 should she decide to come home and get in the house while we are gone. Best of all.....we are going to have fun on this trip!!!! </p><p></p><p>Hubby is already on anti-depressant for his head injury from years ago. I think reading him your messages last night really helped (it's like "couple's therapy") <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> We are looking forward to our visit with our psychiatrist friend.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Snow White, post: 713143, member: 355"] Thank you so much! Each and every one of you has hit the various nails square on: [USER=17309]@Lil[/USER], @SWOT, [USER=17244]@DoneDad[/USER], [USER=17720]@Albatross[/USER], [USER=1233]@susiestar[/USER] and @recoverningenabler Your insight makes me think you have lived in our house (or at least looked in from above - I believe that's where the angels are)! You have confirmed: [LIST] [*]You can't believe her; you know that. You can't believe she was even in the hospital, much less all the rest. [*]Sounds like she's on a never-ending vacation and expects you to foot the bill for it. [*]NEVER send her a dime. She is a con artist, a thief and a fraud. NEVER let this dangerous sick grown woman live with you again. EVER!!! [*]She is the kind who would insist you have the cops throw her out, and then would claim she had been there overnight at least. [*]You have no cause, NONE, to feel any negativity toward yourself or your parenting, AT ALL. This is her, not on you. [*]I would go on my trip (after securing the house) and try to enjoy it. [/LIST] Luckily, in Canada the tenancy laws are different. She wouldn't be able to claim she lived with us. She would have to show proof of rent paid. With the police call history, it wouldn't take much for them to figure it out. I gardened all evening and mulled over the day. It almost frightened me when I came to the conclusion that OUR daughter is really dangerous. I never thought of it in those terms. Made the excuses (she has mental illness, she grew up emotionally challenged, we must have done something wrong, she missed out on _____, blah, blah, blah). She had all the opportunities her brother had (and more). [B]SHE.....IS......DANGEROUS[/B]. There, I've said it out loud. She has no empathy, no remorse, no sympathy.....nothing. We are going on our trip. Daughter will not be told anything of this. Relatives we are visiting will be warned not to communicate our plans with her. She has been off social media since her escapade in Thailand (says people are after her now). And she thought they would just let this 'breeze over'??? Our son will stay at our house while we are away (taking care of the dogs, too). He will have instructions to call 911 should she decide to come home and get in the house while we are gone. Best of all.....we are going to have fun on this trip!!!! Hubby is already on anti-depressant for his head injury from years ago. I think reading him your messages last night really helped (it's like "couple's therapy") :) We are looking forward to our visit with our psychiatrist friend. [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
Need help (or an intervention) - she stepped up her game
Top