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Need help (or an intervention) - she stepped up her game
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 715617" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I love the idea of a dog. They need amd love you. Rescue one!</p><p></p><p>You can help a functional adult who hit hard times...say a mother who works and takes good care of her kids with no help from you, but tragically her husband is hurt in a car accident. You can go there and help until he gets better and they will appreciate it but go back to being independent ASAP. If you do that with an adult who has never stood alone, it doesnt work. The help you offer becomes their lifestyle and they have no gratitude...they dont learn or grow and you become The Bank. If you dare to say enough, its abuse from them.</p><p></p><p>Your daughter is conning multitudes of people all across the globe with her fake gofundme accounts plus she seems to like being sick and getting cared for...there is a name for this, but I forgot it.</p><p></p><p>Please remember only she can realize who she is and change herself. You deserve to enjoy the rest of your life. You seem very kind and loving. Be good to yourself. You did not cause this, not in word, deed, or by example. Amazing what some adult kids pick up...usually it is not due to us.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 715617, member: 1550"] I love the idea of a dog. They need amd love you. Rescue one! You can help a functional adult who hit hard times...say a mother who works and takes good care of her kids with no help from you, but tragically her husband is hurt in a car accident. You can go there and help until he gets better and they will appreciate it but go back to being independent ASAP. If you do that with an adult who has never stood alone, it doesnt work. The help you offer becomes their lifestyle and they have no gratitude...they dont learn or grow and you become The Bank. If you dare to say enough, its abuse from them. Your daughter is conning multitudes of people all across the globe with her fake gofundme accounts plus she seems to like being sick and getting cared for...there is a name for this, but I forgot it. Please remember only she can realize who she is and change herself. You deserve to enjoy the rest of your life. You seem very kind and loving. Be good to yourself. You did not cause this, not in word, deed, or by example. Amazing what some adult kids pick up...usually it is not due to us. [/QUOTE]
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