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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 735149" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I am late here but had a really bad experience with an 11 year old foster boy. He molested my babies for three years and they were too scared of him to tell us. He said he was the devil and he would kill us all and himself if they ever told. He also said he was crazy and would kill us by burning the house down. He acted like an angel around adults so we didn't even suspect. When he was finally caught we were horrified and appalled and he left right away.</p><p></p><p>For this reason, I am always very very careful with a "naybs yes, maybe no" regarding inappropriate sex. I would not allow him alone with any young kids. A child his own age has more power, like the one who did tell his mother on him. Although not all kids do. </p><p></p><p>I would take it seriously. This is not normal sex play. He is way past the age of innocently asking to see a wee wee. He is almost a teenager. </p><p></p><p>My 11 year old, 13 when caught was charged with sexual assault and found guilty. It was not our idea. It came from law enforcement. In his case he was treated as an adult because he molested a child six years younger than himself. But if your son were to touch any child against his will at his age it could be seen as a sex crime.</p><p></p><p>This boy I speak of had to sign up as a sexual predator. </p><p></p><p>Don't take chances or assume he is okay. Don't be like us. It was only the help we got and the strong family bond that kept us tight and together.</p><p></p><p>Be well. And be vigilant.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 735149, member: 1550"] I am late here but had a really bad experience with an 11 year old foster boy. He molested my babies for three years and they were too scared of him to tell us. He said he was the devil and he would kill us all and himself if they ever told. He also said he was crazy and would kill us by burning the house down. He acted like an angel around adults so we didn't even suspect. When he was finally caught we were horrified and appalled and he left right away. For this reason, I am always very very careful with a "naybs yes, maybe no" regarding inappropriate sex. I would not allow him alone with any young kids. A child his own age has more power, like the one who did tell his mother on him. Although not all kids do. I would take it seriously. This is not normal sex play. He is way past the age of innocently asking to see a wee wee. He is almost a teenager. My 11 year old, 13 when caught was charged with sexual assault and found guilty. It was not our idea. It came from law enforcement. In his case he was treated as an adult because he molested a child six years younger than himself. But if your son were to touch any child against his will at his age it could be seen as a sex crime. This boy I speak of had to sign up as a sexual predator. Don't take chances or assume he is okay. Don't be like us. It was only the help we got and the strong family bond that kept us tight and together. Be well. And be vigilant. [/QUOTE]
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