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<blockquote data-quote="MissLulu" data-source="post: 757901" data-attributes="member: 24721"><p>Quick update. Spoke to Difficult Child on phone (he initiated contact). He has bought a new phone. He seemed totally fine. His girlfriend was there and they both sounded happy. Apparently he has been working weekends. I feel very relieved, and also foolish for my obsessive worry. Intellectually I kept telling myself that there was no real evidence of an issue and that worry wouldn't change anything even if there was, but emotionally I couldn't stop the nagging feeling that something was wrong.</p><p></p><p>I really do need to let go. I have improved a little in that once upon a time I would have been texting him or driving to his house to check on him. I didn't do either of those things but I did feel quite miserable for a day or so.</p><p></p><p>I'm so grateful to have all of you to vent my feelings to. It really does help to have somewhere to come to talk about all of this. Even my husband, who has suffered all of this along with me, doesn't really worry the same way I do. Or if he does he doesn't want to talk about it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="MissLulu, post: 757901, member: 24721"] Quick update. Spoke to Difficult Child on phone (he initiated contact). He has bought a new phone. He seemed totally fine. His girlfriend was there and they both sounded happy. Apparently he has been working weekends. I feel very relieved, and also foolish for my obsessive worry. Intellectually I kept telling myself that there was no real evidence of an issue and that worry wouldn't change anything even if there was, but emotionally I couldn't stop the nagging feeling that something was wrong. I really do need to let go. I have improved a little in that once upon a time I would have been texting him or driving to his house to check on him. I didn't do either of those things but I did feel quite miserable for a day or so. I'm so grateful to have all of you to vent my feelings to. It really does help to have somewhere to come to talk about all of this. Even my husband, who has suffered all of this along with me, doesn't really worry the same way I do. Or if he does he doesn't want to talk about it. [/QUOTE]
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