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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 743459" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Copa that was beautiful and perfect.</p><p></p><p>For me and many others, we can love and try to stay engaged when certain crimes are committed such as stealing, drug crimes and others. But when someody goes so far as to harm or kill, especially a child, OUR other beloved child, then they are choosing to make even beloved parents AFRAID, maybe even repelled.</p><p></p><p>Your older son could have come to you in tears and beg for help because he felt like molesting his brother. From what I understand this is a compulsion but it is a choice to do it. Not feeling bad about it makes it more likely he will do it again.</p><p></p><p>He may alrrady have. Few pepdahiles just do it once but many dont get caught.</p><p></p><p>I think you can still have a distant relationship with him if you want to, but I would not ever try to integrate him into the rest of the family again and I would not talk about him to the others unless they ask and then give short answers. It is important that the younger kids feel they are safe from him and that you support them.</p><p></p><p>Love and light.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 743459, member: 1550"] Copa that was beautiful and perfect. For me and many others, we can love and try to stay engaged when certain crimes are committed such as stealing, drug crimes and others. But when someody goes so far as to harm or kill, especially a child, OUR other beloved child, then they are choosing to make even beloved parents AFRAID, maybe even repelled. Your older son could have come to you in tears and beg for help because he felt like molesting his brother. From what I understand this is a compulsion but it is a choice to do it. Not feeling bad about it makes it more likely he will do it again. He may alrrady have. Few pepdahiles just do it once but many dont get caught. I think you can still have a distant relationship with him if you want to, but I would not ever try to integrate him into the rest of the family again and I would not talk about him to the others unless they ask and then give short answers. It is important that the younger kids feel they are safe from him and that you support them. Love and light. [/QUOTE]
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