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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 725014" data-attributes="member: 4152"><p>Over the years I have often said to my hubby that I think it's good to do "extra" for our Difficult Child because she is very slow to figure things out. So "extra" in your case might be a few extra car payments while he looks for a job. I'm NOT a big fan of going beyond "extra" especially if there are NO extenuating circumstances causing a problem and/or my Difficult Child is not putting forth effort. Then doing extra on top of extra makes NO sense at all and could be actually contributing to a problem...giving the wrong message, demotivating and enabling.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 725014, member: 4152"] Over the years I have often said to my hubby that I think it's good to do "extra" for our Difficult Child because she is very slow to figure things out. So "extra" in your case might be a few extra car payments while he looks for a job. I'm NOT a big fan of going beyond "extra" especially if there are NO extenuating circumstances causing a problem and/or my Difficult Child is not putting forth effort. Then doing extra on top of extra makes NO sense at all and could be actually contributing to a problem...giving the wrong message, demotivating and enabling. [/QUOTE]
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