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<blockquote data-quote="SeekingStrength" data-source="post: 665244" data-attributes="member: 17635"><p>Hugs JFK,</p><p></p><p>We understand.</p><p></p><p>If you want to see your son, I think you should. And, taking sandwiches & snacks is a very loving thing to do.</p><p></p><p>It does smack of manipulation (I know only from experience), but there is nothing wrong with meeting him in a public place and giving him food for the trip and telling him you love him. No money, no gifts, just simply letting him know you love him. Period. Nothing more....except I think the food gifts are a sweet gesture.</p><p></p><p>My son? He would throw the food on the ground because he really wanted money.</p><p></p><p>But, I do not think most Difficult Offspring go that far.</p><p></p><p>Please stay with us. I hope, hope, hope you get a good night's sleep and can hand this over to a Higher Power and trust it will all work out in the end. Not necessarily on our time schedule.</p><p></p><p>And, then, do something fun and/or special tomorrow, even if it just a trip to a coffee shop or a walk through a park. Start planning it now.</p><p></p><p>You are in my thoughts tonight.</p><p></p><p>SS</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SeekingStrength, post: 665244, member: 17635"] Hugs JFK, We understand. If you want to see your son, I think you should. And, taking sandwiches & snacks is a very loving thing to do. It does smack of manipulation (I know only from experience), but there is nothing wrong with meeting him in a public place and giving him food for the trip and telling him you love him. No money, no gifts, just simply letting him know you love him. Period. Nothing more....except I think the food gifts are a sweet gesture. My son? He would throw the food on the ground because he really wanted money. But, I do not think most Difficult Offspring go that far. Please stay with us. I hope, hope, hope you get a good night's sleep and can hand this over to a Higher Power and trust it will all work out in the end. Not necessarily on our time schedule. And, then, do something fun and/or special tomorrow, even if it just a trip to a coffee shop or a walk through a park. Start planning it now. You are in my thoughts tonight. SS [/QUOTE]
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