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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 681101" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Gn, there was no real money from my mother. It wasnt about money. It was about what her decision meant to her about me. Like stu.</p><p></p><p>I never ever spoke to my morher about her will. I think its not nice...like somehow you want somebody to die becsuse you may gain. Still I didnt expect her to suddely acknowledge me. But when she did what I expected her to do it still hurt very much. Disinheriting is an act of severe rejection, almost always done with malice. I dont like bossy stipulations from the grave either, but its better perhaps than lack of acknowledging a child. It is not an issue that the rejected child will ever forget, and, as nancy pointed out, it often causes lasting estrangement between siblings. I have to put it away in order to love my siblings. Even though they were not the ones who influenced my mother...nobody did or could. She was not the type to allow influencing and my siblings would never have tried anyway.</p><p>That all being said, I think it feels way differently if you ASK a parent to give all her assets to siblings than when they just DO it on their own to give you the finger from the grave.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 681101, member: 1550"] Gn, there was no real money from my mother. It wasnt about money. It was about what her decision meant to her about me. Like stu. I never ever spoke to my morher about her will. I think its not nice...like somehow you want somebody to die becsuse you may gain. Still I didnt expect her to suddely acknowledge me. But when she did what I expected her to do it still hurt very much. Disinheriting is an act of severe rejection, almost always done with malice. I dont like bossy stipulations from the grave either, but its better perhaps than lack of acknowledging a child. It is not an issue that the rejected child will ever forget, and, as nancy pointed out, it often causes lasting estrangement between siblings. I have to put it away in order to love my siblings. Even though they were not the ones who influenced my mother...nobody did or could. She was not the type to allow influencing and my siblings would never have tried anyway. That all being said, I think it feels way differently if you ASK a parent to give all her assets to siblings than when they just DO it on their own to give you the finger from the grave. [/QUOTE]
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