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<blockquote data-quote="SeekingStrength" data-source="post: 690495" data-attributes="member: 17635"><p>...please weigh in on this. husband and I have a will that leaves everything (we do not have much) equally between our three kids. The only glaring difference is that Difficult Child cannot go through the house taking items until after the other two have gone through. This is because he can be so hateful.</p><p></p><p> Anything left will be auctioned off.</p><p></p><p>Cash in accounts (not much) plus proceeds from auction will be divided between the three kids.</p><p></p><p>HERE is the rub. We just found out today that my mom is seriously considering leaving any inheritance I might have had to Difficult Child....and nothing to his younger siblings. None of our kids is perfect, but the younger two have never, ever, ever come close to Difficult Child. They have made life mistakes, but are sweet and loving and make us proud....and even seem to like us/spend time with us.</p><p></p><p>If this happens, husband and I are very seriously considering changing our will. Perhaps leaving Difficult Child $1000 with the explanation that he got his inheritance early from his grandmother and dividing our other assets between our other two offspring.</p><p></p><p>I am getting this info from my brother, whom I trust completely. My mom (mentioned many times on this forum) has mental issues and has always believed Difficult Child about mistreatment, etc. He is not working, except for "helping" my 83yo mom full time.</p><p></p><p>It is all so crazy and it is our reality.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SeekingStrength, post: 690495, member: 17635"] ...please weigh in on this. husband and I have a will that leaves everything (we do not have much) equally between our three kids. The only glaring difference is that Difficult Child cannot go through the house taking items until after the other two have gone through. This is because he can be so hateful. Anything left will be auctioned off. Cash in accounts (not much) plus proceeds from auction will be divided between the three kids. HERE is the rub. We just found out today that my mom is seriously considering leaving any inheritance I might have had to Difficult Child....and nothing to his younger siblings. None of our kids is perfect, but the younger two have never, ever, ever come close to Difficult Child. They have made life mistakes, but are sweet and loving and make us proud....and even seem to like us/spend time with us. If this happens, husband and I are very seriously considering changing our will. Perhaps leaving Difficult Child $1000 with the explanation that he got his inheritance early from his grandmother and dividing our other assets between our other two offspring. I am getting this info from my brother, whom I trust completely. My mom (mentioned many times on this forum) has mental issues and has always believed Difficult Child about mistreatment, etc. He is not working, except for "helping" my 83yo mom full time. It is all so crazy and it is our reality. [/QUOTE]
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