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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 690498" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>SS, having known your Mom through your posts, I should not have been so stunned at this latest shenanigan.</p><p></p><p>How can she be so hateful and vengeful? Does her malice know no bounds? Is it a desire for power or does she truly want to hurt you? I mean, what in the world is she doing?</p><p></p><p>As I think about it, I am wondering if what she is looking for is a response from you. After trying to engage you over and over again--she is pulling out the ultimate--from the grave power play. But she is destroying a family a little bit--by doing so.</p><p></p><p>I do not think you should alter your will. I would not. I believe it would be playing into what your mother is doing, which is trying to divide your family, perhaps even to destroy it. She has shown herself willing to hurt your son who has in no way been helped by his relationship to her, from what you have shared.</p><p></p><p>Actually, I would find a way to make equity even with respect to the stuff, the contents of the house.I wish my mother had spelled out before she died how her stuff was to be handled.</p><p></p><p>She left it that my sister and I were to go into the house together. My mother's only stipulation was that each daughter was to get some of what she wanted. I will spare you the details but it was a bloodbath.</p><p></p><p>I believe that by responding to your mother's actions by disinheriting your son would be to empower her, not the reverse.</p><p></p><p>That is my thinking. I am so sorry for this. Every single thing she does seems to validate your wish to stay as far away as you can. How you have managed these years to make any kind of relationship, is a credit to you and to your husband.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 690498, member: 18958"] SS, having known your Mom through your posts, I should not have been so stunned at this latest shenanigan. How can she be so hateful and vengeful? Does her malice know no bounds? Is it a desire for power or does she truly want to hurt you? I mean, what in the world is she doing? As I think about it, I am wondering if what she is looking for is a response from you. After trying to engage you over and over again--she is pulling out the ultimate--from the grave power play. But she is destroying a family a little bit--by doing so. I do not think you should alter your will. I would not. I believe it would be playing into what your mother is doing, which is trying to divide your family, perhaps even to destroy it. She has shown herself willing to hurt your son who has in no way been helped by his relationship to her, from what you have shared. Actually, I would find a way to make equity even with respect to the stuff, the contents of the house.I wish my mother had spelled out before she died how her stuff was to be handled. She left it that my sister and I were to go into the house together. My mother's only stipulation was that each daughter was to get some of what she wanted. I will spare you the details but it was a bloodbath. I believe that by responding to your mother's actions by disinheriting your son would be to empower her, not the reverse. That is my thinking. I am so sorry for this. Every single thing she does seems to validate your wish to stay as far away as you can. How you have managed these years to make any kind of relationship, is a credit to you and to your husband. [/QUOTE]
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