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<blockquote data-quote="Fairy dust" data-source="post: 765956" data-attributes="member: 25457"><p>I am so sorry for the heart ache you are going through but glad you have found us. In reading through your post a few observations that i had to reread.</p><p> </p><p>he will not adhere to therapy, programs, help.</p><p>still smokes weed</p><p>bad behaviour takes over.</p><p>he stabbed his roommate.</p><p>you are afraid of him.</p><p></p><p>may I humbly suggest that you take your time to think this decision through and not let his calls pressure you. Please</p><p></p><p>think of your family and your safety first </p><p>what will bailing him out do? Is there a program he is willing to go to and abide by their rules? </p><p>what will change if you bail him out?</p><p></p><p></p><p>through this forum I have learned about the FOG our children put us through…fear, obligation and guilt. Please see what this is and how this can draw you to make decisions you may not be comfortable with. Also there is a great article on detachment on this forum. Please read, reread this as many times as you need to. It will give you strength .</p><p></p><p>others will come along to help. i pray the universe helps you and your family. Finally big hugs! You will get through this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Fairy dust, post: 765956, member: 25457"] I am so sorry for the heart ache you are going through but glad you have found us. In reading through your post a few observations that i had to reread. he will not adhere to therapy, programs, help. still smokes weed bad behaviour takes over. he stabbed his roommate. you are afraid of him. may I humbly suggest that you take your time to think this decision through and not let his calls pressure you. Please think of your family and your safety first what will bailing him out do? Is there a program he is willing to go to and abide by their rules? what will change if you bail him out? through this forum I have learned about the FOG our children put us through…fear, obligation and guilt. Please see what this is and how this can draw you to make decisions you may not be comfortable with. Also there is a great article on detachment on this forum. Please read, reread this as many times as you need to. It will give you strength . others will come along to help. i pray the universe helps you and your family. Finally big hugs! You will get through this. [/QUOTE]
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