I hate the referrals to the forced Christian therapy places. And the refusal of the school to provide services that she needs is one reason we stayed in Stillwater and didn't move to your area. We have services set up here because husband went to grad school a few years ago here. He likes the commute. Stw has very few services, but I broke the school in and have an agreement not to sue as long as they provide the services I want the kids (all 3) to have as long as they are school age. It took the sped teacher driving my son psychotic and into a 4 month psychiatric hospital, but we were headed there anyway.
Document EVERY conversation with the school and anyone in the school. Send a hand-delivered letter or mail one or email after each talk with anyone in the school. THIS is how you will build the paper trail to get the services you need. Talk to the ladies over on the Sp Ed forum, they REALLY know their stuff. Their advice is how I got this agreement, AND has helped several friends in our district AND in the state we used to live in.
I hate that you are so miserable. Kids like this can really break you, and your marriage. Keep my pm in mind.
Hugs, you are NOT ALONE now. We are with you! (and we won't mess with whatever your religious beliefs are!!0
Susie
