All of the power is in you. I know it doesn't feel like that but it is so. First of all (I have just a minute so this will be just a start) there is the decision on your part to give your brain a rest and not to obsess. I think it's New Leaf who says, get off the Merry Go Round. You're the only one who can do this. Just.Decide.To.Get.Off.
In my community and I believe in communities all over USA there are Rescue Missions. Here they offer free room and board to those who can't pay.They offer work, sobriety programs, supervision, etc. They help coordinate with the courts, probation, parole. People walk in here right from jail and probation. I have been involved with them for years and years. My son went a few times. Now I have a client who lives in one. In my community they rent over 100 houses to get people off the streets.
This is not your problem to solve. If you want this torment to end, you must realize the power is in you to stop it. Right now you have put all the power the agency in your daughter.
