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<blockquote data-quote="Cindijh" data-source="post: 186525" data-attributes="member: 5754"><p>No...I have never told her it was her fault. I've told her the opposite. He was older than she was (20/15). And she did not say no. She said she was too drunk to say no at first...but she did summon up the sobriety to communicate she did not want to do it and to his credit, he stopped right then and there. When I found out I contacted the Y here in town that has a crisis center for stuff like this. Since she was engaging in the substance abuse prior to the rape and told me she loved that feeling of "being outside of herself" and since the services they offered were specifically for rape, they suggested we seek out a more "full service counselor". We did and neither that counselor or the pyschiatrist she also saw for a depression evaluation suggested we seek rape specific counseling. We left it up to her whether she wanted to prosecute since that was their advice. She did not. She was dead set against it. </p><p> </p><p>Our youth group leaders are suggesting sending her to Teen Challenge...and have offered to help us pay for it. Anyone here have any experience with Teen Challenge?</p><p> </p><p>Cindi.....</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Cindijh, post: 186525, member: 5754"] No...I have never told her it was her fault. I've told her the opposite. He was older than she was (20/15). And she did not say no. She said she was too drunk to say no at first...but she did summon up the sobriety to communicate she did not want to do it and to his credit, he stopped right then and there. When I found out I contacted the Y here in town that has a crisis center for stuff like this. Since she was engaging in the substance abuse prior to the rape and told me she loved that feeling of "being outside of herself" and since the services they offered were specifically for rape, they suggested we seek out a more "full service counselor". We did and neither that counselor or the pyschiatrist she also saw for a depression evaluation suggested we seek rape specific counseling. We left it up to her whether she wanted to prosecute since that was their advice. She did not. She was dead set against it. Our youth group leaders are suggesting sending her to Teen Challenge...and have offered to help us pay for it. Anyone here have any experience with Teen Challenge? Cindi..... [/QUOTE]
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