The doctors are idiots. Just because it was reported, whether anything was done about it or not, does not "take care of" what it did to your daughter. How ignorant that is!!! Reporting it does not help her heal from it. Grrrrrr Professionals like that irritate the h**** out of me. I'm sorry they were so dismissive. Obviously, they have no experience with these types of things and are too stupid to refer you to someone that DOES.
{{{{HUGS}}}} to you and your kids.
