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<blockquote data-quote="Crayola13" data-source="post: 764059" data-attributes="member: 21066"><p>I’m sorry your son has given you so much grief over the years. From what you described, he inherited some problematic genes. His dad was in and out of prison. His grandparents have personality disorders. This is a mix of genes that will continue causing problems for future generations. Mental illness and criminal behavior are often hereditary, particularly mental illness. It’s a family curse that can’t be stopped until the bloodline comes to an end. </p><p></p><p>I hope the new grand baby gets into some kind of early intervention program that may or may not help prevent him from becoming his dad and grandfather. Personality disorders are difficult to treat, even more so than mental illness. It’s so tragic how even behavioral problems and personalities are hereditary. He needs activities, routine, and when he’s old enough, counseling. He needs to understand that his dad and grandfather don’t behave normally and that those behaviors are off-limits. Those messages have to be reinforced over the course of a child’s life. Even then, there is no guarantee the child won’t inherit problematic genes. </p><p></p><p>I don’t understand not flushing the commode. </p><p></p><p>It sounds like you’ve had some counseling for yourself. You might want to stick with it because you’re distressed and at your wit’s end. Those kind of stressors can lead to physical ailments. Find activities that are fun or relaxing. Working with crafts or cross-stitching keeps the hands busy, which is very therapeutic for some people.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Crayola13, post: 764059, member: 21066"] I’m sorry your son has given you so much grief over the years. From what you described, he inherited some problematic genes. His dad was in and out of prison. His grandparents have personality disorders. This is a mix of genes that will continue causing problems for future generations. Mental illness and criminal behavior are often hereditary, particularly mental illness. It’s a family curse that can’t be stopped until the bloodline comes to an end. I hope the new grand baby gets into some kind of early intervention program that may or may not help prevent him from becoming his dad and grandfather. Personality disorders are difficult to treat, even more so than mental illness. It’s so tragic how even behavioral problems and personalities are hereditary. He needs activities, routine, and when he’s old enough, counseling. He needs to understand that his dad and grandfather don’t behave normally and that those behaviors are off-limits. Those messages have to be reinforced over the course of a child’s life. Even then, there is no guarantee the child won’t inherit problematic genes. I don’t understand not flushing the commode. It sounds like you’ve had some counseling for yourself. You might want to stick with it because you’re distressed and at your wit’s end. Those kind of stressors can lead to physical ailments. Find activities that are fun or relaxing. Working with crafts or cross-stitching keeps the hands busy, which is very therapeutic for some people. [/QUOTE]
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