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<blockquote data-quote="Gran2Angels" data-source="post: 341999" data-attributes="member: 8951"><p>DDD,</p><p> </p><p>Yes, I did request a meeting with the counselor, which was refused. She did listen briefly on the phone, but I could tell it was just to appease me. </p><p> </p><p>I am sorry that you have traveled this road with your grandson's and now your precious granddaughter. You struck a cord with me when you said you took comfort in knowing the boys knew you were always there for them. At the present time, my grands know that too.. but this past 2-3 months of difficult child behaving to the extreme has taken a toll on their little hearts and minds I'm afraid. difficult child has talked ugly about everyone, including me. She has said things in front of the children that are very hurtful and untrue. I just hope and pray difficult child doesn't keep it up to the point of causing strife in my relationship with the grands, as far as them trusting and reaching out to me. I know she tells them to keep secrets and "not tell Gran" things. I don't ask them many questions, because I can tell they get very uncomfortable and torn. We are very close. Things tend to "come out" at bed time, that's when they seem to open up about the troubles. I feel so bad for them.</p><p> </p><p>difficult child has psychiatrist appointment tomorrow. I'm hoping for another medication adjustment for better results.</p><p> </p><p>Thank you for the thoughts and suggestions. Any insight is greatly appreciated.</p><p> </p><p>Gran</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Gran2Angels, post: 341999, member: 8951"] DDD, Yes, I did request a meeting with the counselor, which was refused. She did listen briefly on the phone, but I could tell it was just to appease me. I am sorry that you have traveled this road with your grandson's and now your precious granddaughter. You struck a cord with me when you said you took comfort in knowing the boys knew you were always there for them. At the present time, my grands know that too.. but this past 2-3 months of difficult child behaving to the extreme has taken a toll on their little hearts and minds I'm afraid. difficult child has talked ugly about everyone, including me. She has said things in front of the children that are very hurtful and untrue. I just hope and pray difficult child doesn't keep it up to the point of causing strife in my relationship with the grands, as far as them trusting and reaching out to me. I know she tells them to keep secrets and "not tell Gran" things. I don't ask them many questions, because I can tell they get very uncomfortable and torn. We are very close. Things tend to "come out" at bed time, that's when they seem to open up about the troubles. I feel so bad for them. difficult child has psychiatrist appointment tomorrow. I'm hoping for another medication adjustment for better results. Thank you for the thoughts and suggestions. Any insight is greatly appreciated. Gran [/QUOTE]
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