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<blockquote data-quote="Ironbutterfly" data-source="post: 676969" data-attributes="member: 19951"><p>Yes, the past 7 months he has become an emotional bully to me and his Aunt if he calls and wants money and we say no. Then he gets others to call with the "scam story". He called back in September for 3 days straight saying Mom if you want me to live you have to give me 65.00. Heartbreaking. </p><p></p><p>He has a good heart and loves to hang around and talk to homeless people. He preaches the Bible, etc. But he also meets bad women who know he is vulnerable and gets some money monthly. Then he falls in love with them and does whatever they tell him to do. Now he is smart enough, even with low IQ, to know right from wrong and he is accountable for those decisions wherever they take him. About 7 years ago I did tough love with no contact for 6 months. It was hard- but years later he thanked me and said that was the best thing you ever did for me. He lived right for about two years- until this past year when he met the crack whore girlfriend and he has been in a down-ward spiral since. </p><p></p><p>I learned here that I am not helping him- by being his payee- he needs 3rd party that is not emotionally involved. He can't scam them nor can anyone of his friends then push him to get money- because it will be controlled. </p><p></p><p>I will continue here and help when I can with others here. What a great forum, such a blessing.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ironbutterfly, post: 676969, member: 19951"] Yes, the past 7 months he has become an emotional bully to me and his Aunt if he calls and wants money and we say no. Then he gets others to call with the "scam story". He called back in September for 3 days straight saying Mom if you want me to live you have to give me 65.00. Heartbreaking. He has a good heart and loves to hang around and talk to homeless people. He preaches the Bible, etc. But he also meets bad women who know he is vulnerable and gets some money monthly. Then he falls in love with them and does whatever they tell him to do. Now he is smart enough, even with low IQ, to know right from wrong and he is accountable for those decisions wherever they take him. About 7 years ago I did tough love with no contact for 6 months. It was hard- but years later he thanked me and said that was the best thing you ever did for me. He lived right for about two years- until this past year when he met the crack whore girlfriend and he has been in a down-ward spiral since. I learned here that I am not helping him- by being his payee- he needs 3rd party that is not emotionally involved. He can't scam them nor can anyone of his friends then push him to get money- because it will be controlled. I will continue here and help when I can with others here. What a great forum, such a blessing. [/QUOTE]
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