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<blockquote data-quote="WearyinCanada" data-source="post: 744436" data-attributes="member: 23513"><p>Thank you Copacabana <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p></p><p>Yes, I have a very patient and supportive husband, who is not his father...which I think makes it easier for him to disconnect and only be support for me.</p><p></p><p>No arrests. Lots of allusions and threats of suicide, but no attempts. In speaking with his doctors during each stay, none believed he was truly suicidal.</p><p></p><p>No accidents or injuries....his biological father is INCREDIBLY similar to him...history of drug use, verbally abusive, etc....but was never is his life until they connected over the last couple of years.</p><p></p><p>He has a very distorted view of how he was raised, although it is clearly his reality. He feels that he was neglected and treated differently than his younger siblings, that I abandoned him and he was left to fend for himself when my husband and I started dating 17 years ago....all of these things come up only when I refuse to give money or fix situations. When I give advice, he never takes it...when I dont give advice, I "dont care".</p><p></p><p>He is living off his last paycheque, I believe down to the last few dollars....but refuses to tell me where he is. Will not seek help from a shelter or other resources.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="WearyinCanada, post: 744436, member: 23513"] Thank you Copacabana :) Yes, I have a very patient and supportive husband, who is not his father...which I think makes it easier for him to disconnect and only be support for me. No arrests. Lots of allusions and threats of suicide, but no attempts. In speaking with his doctors during each stay, none believed he was truly suicidal. No accidents or injuries....his biological father is INCREDIBLY similar to him...history of drug use, verbally abusive, etc....but was never is his life until they connected over the last couple of years. He has a very distorted view of how he was raised, although it is clearly his reality. He feels that he was neglected and treated differently than his younger siblings, that I abandoned him and he was left to fend for himself when my husband and I started dating 17 years ago....all of these things come up only when I refuse to give money or fix situations. When I give advice, he never takes it...when I dont give advice, I "dont care". He is living off his last paycheque, I believe down to the last few dollars....but refuses to tell me where he is. Will not seek help from a shelter or other resources. [/QUOTE]
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