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<blockquote data-quote="WearyinCanada" data-source="post: 744455" data-attributes="member: 23513"><p>Oh...I guarantee i dont know everything about his circumstances. In fact, i generally assume he is lying to me...based on the past, and provable lies.</p><p></p><p>I harbour so much anger towards him....for wasted opportunities, for taking advantage of every family member who has ever believed he would pay back money, for blaming me for all of his problems, for how he treats my mother. There is SO much work for him to do for me to even believe things are changing...I have lots of hope but no faith in him <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> I feel guilty for saying that. </p><p></p><p>I share nothing about our lives with him, as it always gets thrown back in my face...if I have things or spend money, it should be on him...I'm certain he feels this way.</p><p></p><p>I was not supportive of him and his 18 yr old girlfriend (of a couple months) choosing to get pregnant....not without a job, or means of supporting themselves. She moved back in with her parents and they broke up. He holds this against me, and BUT FOR ME, would have his son in his life....I know this is not true. </p><p></p><p>I have him constantly on my mind...when I eat (is he hungry)...when I turn up the heat (is he cold)...when I buy Christmas presents (how can I be happy?)....I KNOW things are only going to get worse. He feels that the answer to all of his problems is me....if I would change, he would change ...i dont understand this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="WearyinCanada, post: 744455, member: 23513"] Oh...I guarantee i dont know everything about his circumstances. In fact, i generally assume he is lying to me...based on the past, and provable lies. I harbour so much anger towards him....for wasted opportunities, for taking advantage of every family member who has ever believed he would pay back money, for blaming me for all of his problems, for how he treats my mother. There is SO much work for him to do for me to even believe things are changing...I have lots of hope but no faith in him :( I feel guilty for saying that. I share nothing about our lives with him, as it always gets thrown back in my face...if I have things or spend money, it should be on him...I'm certain he feels this way. I was not supportive of him and his 18 yr old girlfriend (of a couple months) choosing to get pregnant....not without a job, or means of supporting themselves. She moved back in with her parents and they broke up. He holds this against me, and BUT FOR ME, would have his son in his life....I know this is not true. I have him constantly on my mind...when I eat (is he hungry)...when I turn up the heat (is he cold)...when I buy Christmas presents (how can I be happy?)....I KNOW things are only going to get worse. He feels that the answer to all of his problems is me....if I would change, he would change ...i dont understand this. [/QUOTE]
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