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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 744456" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Do you mean he thinks you should change as in support him monetarily, let him live rent free in your home, put no expectations of adulthood on him, apologize profusely for things you didnt do etc?</p><p></p><p>That is the kind of ridiculous change our failure to thrive adult kids want from us. It would be insane of us to do it.</p><p></p><p>Let me guess. Your son isnt in his son's life because of his own lack of willingness to live close by and see him? Family law doesnt forbid fathers from seeing their kids. Your son has not been arrested. Has he been to family court? Certainly a Judge didnt order that he have no visitation. They dont do that. And its not up to Mom if Dad can see his kid....and when. So his lack of contact has to be his fault in some way. You could not have had a thing to do about it. Only a Judge controls that.</p><p></p><p>In the back of his mind, he must know his life is his fault.</p><p></p><p>To feel and cope better, you should really check out therapy.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 744456, member: 1550"] Do you mean he thinks you should change as in support him monetarily, let him live rent free in your home, put no expectations of adulthood on him, apologize profusely for things you didnt do etc? That is the kind of ridiculous change our failure to thrive adult kids want from us. It would be insane of us to do it. Let me guess. Your son isnt in his son's life because of his own lack of willingness to live close by and see him? Family law doesnt forbid fathers from seeing their kids. Your son has not been arrested. Has he been to family court? Certainly a Judge didnt order that he have no visitation. They dont do that. And its not up to Mom if Dad can see his kid....and when. So his lack of contact has to be his fault in some way. You could not have had a thing to do about it. Only a Judge controls that. In the back of his mind, he must know his life is his fault. To feel and cope better, you should really check out therapy. [/QUOTE]
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