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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 731094" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Actually, if we look at this cold-blooded and strategically, he is moving this along in a good way by his bad behavior, so as to reveal his true colors so that they be addressed in treatment outside the home, for daughter to be safe in her home, and the family to heal.</p><p></p><p>By openly scapegoating, threatenning you (cps) and blaming you.</p><p></p><p>By lying to others about you presenting himself as the victim.</p><p></p><p>By trying to get you (and the other kids) out to live happily ever after with dad.</p><p></p><p>By recruiting great grandmother to intervene and aggressively impose her power and rule in his behalf.</p><p></p><p>By openly manipulating and acting as an independent power base in the family.</p><p></p><p>All of this seems to be forcing his dad's hand and making it impossible for dad to not see him as he is: Entitled. Strategic. All powerful. Manupulative. Out of control. Self preoccupied. Lack of concern for others. Cunning. Vindictive. Scheming. Grandiose. With the sense he is untouchable.</p><p></p><p>All of these mindsets/behaviors require intensive treatment, for his welfare. These are compensatory behaviors. Because this is a false self to conceal a real sense of emptiness, helplessness. He CAN be helped by intensive treatment, outside the home. Let alone this is corrosive, traumatic and dangerous to others.</p><p></p><p>Seriously depressed people (children) do not act this way.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 731094, member: 18958"] Actually, if we look at this cold-blooded and strategically, he is moving this along in a good way by his bad behavior, so as to reveal his true colors so that they be addressed in treatment outside the home, for daughter to be safe in her home, and the family to heal. By openly scapegoating, threatenning you (cps) and blaming you. By lying to others about you presenting himself as the victim. By trying to get you (and the other kids) out to live happily ever after with dad. By recruiting great grandmother to intervene and aggressively impose her power and rule in his behalf. By openly manipulating and acting as an independent power base in the family. All of this seems to be forcing his dad's hand and making it impossible for dad to not see him as he is: Entitled. Strategic. All powerful. Manupulative. Out of control. Self preoccupied. Lack of concern for others. Cunning. Vindictive. Scheming. Grandiose. With the sense he is untouchable. All of these mindsets/behaviors require intensive treatment, for his welfare. These are compensatory behaviors. Because this is a false self to conceal a real sense of emptiness, helplessness. He CAN be helped by intensive treatment, outside the home. Let alone this is corrosive, traumatic and dangerous to others. Seriously depressed people (children) do not act this way. [/QUOTE]
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