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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 731131" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>That's the bottom line isn't it Sumsky? Your daughter is safe. And YOU made that happen.</p><p></p><p>I've been in these kind of explosive situations where I am the one in the middle of it all trying to figure out how to do the right thing while the landscape explodes around me. I have a lot of empathy for you, I understand how impossible this all is and yet, someone had to step up to the plate and.......<em>you did that.</em> </p><p></p><p>The future is uncertain and that alone has it's challenges. I understand the worry you have.</p><p></p><p>Here's my take on it.....you've already done the hard part which is opening everyone's eyes to the truth. You've figured out the healthiest way through and communicated that. You're now in the waiting part to see how others will respond and if they can work towards the plan to get SS the help he needs while keeping your daughter safe. That part is out of your control, others will make their decisions, you've already shown up and told the truth and protected your daughter.</p><p></p><p>Now take care of you.Take a deep breath and let go. You are going through a horrific ordeal and you've had to hold it together for your daughter.....I hope you have a place, or a friend, or someone you can go to to simply be, to fall apart, to cry, to let go. You aren't through the woods yet and you'll need your strength and reserves.....so please, make sure you are well supported too....it's so easy to not get our needs met when so much is in limbo and our loved ones are in jeopardy......remember, warriors need rest to continue their quest.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 731131, member: 13542"] That's the bottom line isn't it Sumsky? Your daughter is safe. And YOU made that happen. I've been in these kind of explosive situations where I am the one in the middle of it all trying to figure out how to do the right thing while the landscape explodes around me. I have a lot of empathy for you, I understand how impossible this all is and yet, someone had to step up to the plate and.......[I]you did that.[/I] The future is uncertain and that alone has it's challenges. I understand the worry you have. Here's my take on it.....you've already done the hard part which is opening everyone's eyes to the truth. You've figured out the healthiest way through and communicated that. You're now in the waiting part to see how others will respond and if they can work towards the plan to get SS the help he needs while keeping your daughter safe. That part is out of your control, others will make their decisions, you've already shown up and told the truth and protected your daughter. Now take care of you.Take a deep breath and let go. You are going through a horrific ordeal and you've had to hold it together for your daughter.....I hope you have a place, or a friend, or someone you can go to to simply be, to fall apart, to cry, to let go. You aren't through the woods yet and you'll need your strength and reserves.....so please, make sure you are well supported too....it's so easy to not get our needs met when so much is in limbo and our loved ones are in jeopardy......remember, warriors need rest to continue their quest. [/QUOTE]
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