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<blockquote data-quote="Confused" data-source="post: 422200"><p>Hi Jena,</p><p> Thank you for responding so quick! He has been seen 3 times in the last couple of months by this guy with a PHD and his specialties are family and marriage counseling,counseling. I thought/believe he is a psychiatrist,I have to find is card. They "played" with him just to see where he was with his motor skills and so on today.I have spoken to his Pediatrician over a year ago,said it was his speech and be consistent with discipline.The night clinic we have (took him twice for other reasons) said he's testing me,they cant help me and just "discipline properly" or said it couldn't be that bad!I again at his 5 year check up brought it up to another DR who works with his normal pediatrician, and got a referral. Now, I had a followup with his upper respiratory infection with the main Dr, who said sounds like bi-polar but he will go with the Dr. my son saw. My friends,family,one of my daughters friends have all talked to him about this. Told him it hurts him and us and its ok to get mad but not like that.Paint,draw,exercise,walk,sing,dance,play ooutside,etc to calm down.If he is in a good mood,most of the time he will look at us but seems very "annoyed" after a few and leaves,changes the subject or plays around. He is not sensitive to light and he plays with the kids at school,and here on the block.Schedule changes,(at home) he will get very angry when something was planned and we or someone else had to cancel. The snow storm we had he was actually ok with!It is very hard to get him up and ready in the morning.He wants to play or just sit there until he feels he wants to do it. (All day he can be like that too.)He had a T-ball practice this week and he had to be there at 6pm. Well he did not want to get ready until we were calling his coach and closing up the house-15 minutes before the practice and takes 10 minutes to drive there.He wanted T-ball, we did not force him in this.Yes!!! So impatient!!!! Today,he wanted outside, I said ok, I have to "powder my nose" (im saying that nicely here on the forum but said it where my son knew I had to "go") and we would go outside. He said no,now! I started to walk away and he was so so mad! He is so demanding he can go for hours or even days on wanting something,icecream,toys,watching T.V., being on the computer,going anywhere, and so on.He starts most of the fights with his sister as well. Yes his hearing is checked from his yearly checkups and also because of his Speech issue has gone twice and he has great hearing! His 2nd speech therapist said he can verbally express himself so she didn't understand why he would be so violent and hurt himself. His rages are just so bad, its like walking on ice waiting for it to crack and we fall in again! Don't get me wrong, he does have some good days and can be wonderful.He is smart, and im teaching him how to read. I am not saying Im perfect, but it just cant be all me!Don't be sorry about the questions, as you and everyone else here will find out, I love to talk "write" and will answer!</p><p>Confused</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Confused, post: 422200"] Hi Jena, Thank you for responding so quick! He has been seen 3 times in the last couple of months by this guy with a PHD and his specialties are family and marriage counseling,counseling. I thought/believe he is a psychiatrist,I have to find is card. They "played" with him just to see where he was with his motor skills and so on today.I have spoken to his Pediatrician over a year ago,said it was his speech and be consistent with discipline.The night clinic we have (took him twice for other reasons) said he's testing me,they cant help me and just "discipline properly" or said it couldn't be that bad!I again at his 5 year check up brought it up to another DR who works with his normal pediatrician, and got a referral. Now, I had a followup with his upper respiratory infection with the main Dr, who said sounds like bi-polar but he will go with the Dr. my son saw. My friends,family,one of my daughters friends have all talked to him about this. Told him it hurts him and us and its ok to get mad but not like that.Paint,draw,exercise,walk,sing,dance,play ooutside,etc to calm down.If he is in a good mood,most of the time he will look at us but seems very "annoyed" after a few and leaves,changes the subject or plays around. He is not sensitive to light and he plays with the kids at school,and here on the block.Schedule changes,(at home) he will get very angry when something was planned and we or someone else had to cancel. The snow storm we had he was actually ok with!It is very hard to get him up and ready in the morning.He wants to play or just sit there until he feels he wants to do it. (All day he can be like that too.)He had a T-ball practice this week and he had to be there at 6pm. Well he did not want to get ready until we were calling his coach and closing up the house-15 minutes before the practice and takes 10 minutes to drive there.He wanted T-ball, we did not force him in this.Yes!!! So impatient!!!! Today,he wanted outside, I said ok, I have to "powder my nose" (im saying that nicely here on the forum but said it where my son knew I had to "go") and we would go outside. He said no,now! I started to walk away and he was so so mad! He is so demanding he can go for hours or even days on wanting something,icecream,toys,watching T.V., being on the computer,going anywhere, and so on.He starts most of the fights with his sister as well. Yes his hearing is checked from his yearly checkups and also because of his Speech issue has gone twice and he has great hearing! His 2nd speech therapist said he can verbally express himself so she didn't understand why he would be so violent and hurt himself. His rages are just so bad, its like walking on ice waiting for it to crack and we fall in again! Don't get me wrong, he does have some good days and can be wonderful.He is smart, and im teaching him how to read. I am not saying Im perfect, but it just cant be all me!Don't be sorry about the questions, as you and everyone else here will find out, I love to talk "write" and will answer! Confused [/QUOTE]
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