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<blockquote data-quote="Confused" data-source="post: 422268"><p>Hi MidwestMom,</p><p> His fathers side is violent towards women but, Its "hearsay" and he denies it all. He has been arrested by two different women(ex-wives) for domestic violence but denies he hit them or threatened them. He never hit me but our relationship was not good. Our kids never saw any violence. My mother honestly had Schizophrenia but I do not see this in my son. I understand it can skip generations as my sister and I are fine." Usually" symptoms do not show up until late teens or older, and she was not violent. I use to drink but when I was" late"when I found out I was pregnant with my first child that I miscarrie,I stoppped. I drank again after,then 9 months later got pregnant with my now 10 year old and never drank again.So it has been over11 years since I drank, not even 1 beer! Their father drinks all the time but denies he has a problem. The other mother of his two other boys as well as I, went to court and put a order for him not to drink 12 hours before getting the kids as well as during. Autistic spectrum, not on either side. I'm just hearing that I need to let him grow, socialize him, discipline him harder! Its just getting worse, I do take some blame here,don't get me wrong.But if it is all my fault, then why is my daughter ok and not my son? My father is moving out due to the problems with my son, he is disabled and has heart trouble, he can not take anymore problems. My own sister/her husband can't handle him for long periods.My daughter gets little attention due to my sons issues and I know she feels hurt about that. The "counselor" we saw did not even want to see my son on tape that I had for a tantrum, he said" oh after i officially diagnose next week,you show me". Sorry so long, as I said, I talk alot! <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p>Confused</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Confused, post: 422268"] Hi MidwestMom, His fathers side is violent towards women but, Its "hearsay" and he denies it all. He has been arrested by two different women(ex-wives) for domestic violence but denies he hit them or threatened them. He never hit me but our relationship was not good. Our kids never saw any violence. My mother honestly had Schizophrenia but I do not see this in my son. I understand it can skip generations as my sister and I are fine." Usually" symptoms do not show up until late teens or older, and she was not violent. I use to drink but when I was" late"when I found out I was pregnant with my first child that I miscarrie,I stoppped. I drank again after,then 9 months later got pregnant with my now 10 year old and never drank again.So it has been over11 years since I drank, not even 1 beer! Their father drinks all the time but denies he has a problem. The other mother of his two other boys as well as I, went to court and put a order for him not to drink 12 hours before getting the kids as well as during. Autistic spectrum, not on either side. I'm just hearing that I need to let him grow, socialize him, discipline him harder! Its just getting worse, I do take some blame here,don't get me wrong.But if it is all my fault, then why is my daughter ok and not my son? My father is moving out due to the problems with my son, he is disabled and has heart trouble, he can not take anymore problems. My own sister/her husband can't handle him for long periods.My daughter gets little attention due to my sons issues and I know she feels hurt about that. The "counselor" we saw did not even want to see my son on tape that I had for a tantrum, he said" oh after i officially diagnose next week,you show me". Sorry so long, as I said, I talk alot! :) Confused [/QUOTE]
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