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<blockquote data-quote="WhymeMom?" data-source="post: 49567" data-attributes="member: 53"><p><span style='font-family: Comic Sans MS'>Midwest Mom,</p><p>Your son seems to focus in one direction and loses sight of all else around him. This causes him to be driven and very literal, so he could make his million because of the focus, but now he has chosen his wife (and heritage) and religion to focus on. That means that all else will fall by the wayside. I would imagine that he has few friends, even within the church if he is so literal. The church will probably be elated with his skills and interest so I pray there are not greedy people in charge. I have heard of XXX, but not really familiar with other aspects of this church...</p><p></p><p>When and if a crisis arises he will undoubtedly turn to his wife's family, but if they are unable to provide help I think he will turn to his first family, you. Until that time you will just have to wait silently. Just let him know you are there. I know this is difficult for you because you ought to be able to share the good times with him, but right now his focus is elsewhere....I wouldn't push because I don't think your son can handle it. He must focus on a few things to be effective and he knows at this point that you don't need him.</p><p></p><p>This is all just my 2 cents, so take it for what you paid for it. I think unfortunately you will just have to wait in the wings until he matures or something tragic happens in his life and he can't cope with wife's domination or loses focus....</p><p>The good and bad of being driven?????</p><p></p><p>Sending thoughts of stength your way....</span></p><p></p><p> :faint:</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="WhymeMom?, post: 49567, member: 53"] <span style='font-family: Comic Sans MS'>Midwest Mom, Your son seems to focus in one direction and loses sight of all else around him. This causes him to be driven and very literal, so he could make his million because of the focus, but now he has chosen his wife (and heritage) and religion to focus on. That means that all else will fall by the wayside. I would imagine that he has few friends, even within the church if he is so literal. The church will probably be elated with his skills and interest so I pray there are not greedy people in charge. I have heard of XXX, but not really familiar with other aspects of this church... When and if a crisis arises he will undoubtedly turn to his wife's family, but if they are unable to provide help I think he will turn to his first family, you. Until that time you will just have to wait silently. Just let him know you are there. I know this is difficult for you because you ought to be able to share the good times with him, but right now his focus is elsewhere....I wouldn't push because I don't think your son can handle it. He must focus on a few things to be effective and he knows at this point that you don't need him. This is all just my 2 cents, so take it for what you paid for it. I think unfortunately you will just have to wait in the wings until he matures or something tragic happens in his life and he can't cope with wife's domination or loses focus.... The good and bad of being driven????? Sending thoughts of stength your way....</span> [img]:faint:[/img] [/QUOTE]
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