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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 531652" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>This is way beyond what you are doing or not doing, dont you think? He clearly has problems. When he does damage to your walls does he have to pay to repair them, or do the repair work? I know it wont change things, but am just wondering what you do about that. It does let them know that they can't just do that kind of stuff without consequences. My son has made a hole in a wall years ago and he also has broken a door. He has had to give me things he valued (I told him I had to sell them to get money to fix things, but of course his stuff wasn't worth anything except to him). </p><p></p><p>I am sorry he is raging so much. If he is using, there is no way to know when something is hitting or wearing off and if he has any kind of mental health issue going on, how that is being affected and his need for helpful medication is all muddied up with the drug use. It does hold you hostage, and it is hard not to feel resentful and angry. I am sorry you are having to go through this. </p><p></p><p>I hope today brings you at least one day of rest.....hugs, Dee</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 531652, member: 12886"] This is way beyond what you are doing or not doing, dont you think? He clearly has problems. When he does damage to your walls does he have to pay to repair them, or do the repair work? I know it wont change things, but am just wondering what you do about that. It does let them know that they can't just do that kind of stuff without consequences. My son has made a hole in a wall years ago and he also has broken a door. He has had to give me things he valued (I told him I had to sell them to get money to fix things, but of course his stuff wasn't worth anything except to him). I am sorry he is raging so much. If he is using, there is no way to know when something is hitting or wearing off and if he has any kind of mental health issue going on, how that is being affected and his need for helpful medication is all muddied up with the drug use. It does hold you hostage, and it is hard not to feel resentful and angry. I am sorry you are having to go through this. I hope today brings you at least one day of rest.....hugs, Dee [/QUOTE]
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